{"id":590,"date":"2004-02-01T22:18:00","date_gmt":"2004-02-01T22:18:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adrianwarnock.com\/2004\/02\/a-wasted-life\/"},"modified":"2004-02-01T22:18:00","modified_gmt":"2004-02-01T22:18:00","slug":"wasted-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/adrianwarnock\/2004\/02\/wasted-life\/","title":{"rendered":"A wasted life?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>Thanks to <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.salon.com\/0003124\/2004\/01\/30.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Correction<\/a> for this:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cA Parable<br>\n<br>When the baby died, the angels carried him up to Heaven and rested him gently on a cloud. A man was there, also new, and they decided to tour Heaven together. \u2018Tell me about yourself,\u2019 said the baby, trying to put the man at ease.<br>\n<br>\u2018I was old. I died in my sleep. I had a long life, so I can\u2019t complain.\u2019 The man looked at the little baby before him. \u2018You, though. How could God let you die so young? It\u2019s cruel. It\u2019s unfair.\u2019<br>\n<br>The baby just shrugged. They walked on. As the man walked, he grew angrier and angrier at God. \u2018How could God bless me with such a long life, and give this little one nothing? What did I do to deserve so much and him to deserve so little? How could God be so unfair? When I see God, I\u2019m going to demand that he explain himself.\u2019<br>\n<br>They continued walking, and finally they spotted God, who was taking a walk. Despite his anger, the man prostrated himself before God. The baby smiled and wiggled his toes. God welcomed them both.<br>\n<br>\u2018I don\u2019t want to question you, Lord, but something\u2019s bothering me,\u2019 said the man. \u2018I lived a long life. I had so many years, had so much happiness. Why did you deny this little baby such a life?\u2019<br>\n<br>God looked at the man with kindness. \u2018Your pity is misplaced,\u2019 he finally said. \u2018It is not this child who deserves pity. Ask him about his life; get to know him. Then you will understand.\u2019 Then, embracing both of them, he walked away.<br>\n<br>The man was stunned. \u2018What on earth did that mean?\u2019 The baby only shrugged. Exasperated, the man said, \u2018Tell me about your life, then.\u2019<br>\n<br>The baby grinned. \u2018Oh, it was wonderful there. Always warm. Everyone was so gentle, so kind. Everyone loved me. Whenever I was hungry, they fed me. When I was dirty, they cleaned me with warm water and soft touches. 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