{"id":577,"date":"2012-09-03T00:01:09","date_gmt":"2012-09-03T06:01:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/afewgrownmen\/?p=577"},"modified":"2012-09-01T15:15:24","modified_gmt":"2012-09-01T21:15:24","slug":"10-tips-for-moms-on-raising-boys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/afewgrownmen\/2012\/09\/10-tips-for-moms-on-raising-boys\/","title":{"rendered":"10 TIPS FOR MOMS ON RAISING BOYS"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>\u2022 Boys need clear, unambiguous boundaries<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Boys need to be held accountable for their actions and decisions (no matter how much you want to, do not rescue them)<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Boys need to learn the correlation between taking risks and success in life\u2014let them get hurt<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Boys need to not acquire the habit of quitting early in life (quitting is an easily learned life-long habit for males\u2014again do not rescue too often)<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Boys need (must have) positive male role models in their lives<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Speak to your son in simple, short sound bite-sized sentences (get to the point within 30 seconds)<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 If you need to discuss something in depth, take a hike, shoot hoops, or other physical activity with your son<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Women have much better communication skills than a boy.\u00a0 It is intimidating to sit across the table, eye to eye from someone so much more skilled in an area than he is<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Start discussing sexuality early in your son\u2019s life\u2014it will be easier later on<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 If you are a single mom, don\u2019t be discouraged\u2013millions of good men have been raised by just their mothers.<\/p>\n<p>Bonus tip\u2014best thing a mother can do for her son?\u00a0 Pray.\u00a0 For.\u00a0 Him.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>To find out more about Rick\u2019s bestselling book, <em>That\u2019s My Son\u2014How Moms Can Influence Boys to Become Men of Character<\/em>, by Revell Publishing, go to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.betterdads.net\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">www.betterdads.net<\/a> .<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2022 Boys need clear, unambiguous boundaries \u2022 Boys need to be held accountable for their actions and decisions (no matter how much you want to, do not rescue them) \u2022 Boys need to learn the correlation between taking risks and success in life\u2014let them get hurt \u2022 Boys need to not acquire the habit of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1113,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[11,42,45,46,14],"class_list":["post-577","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-parenting","tag-boys","tag-character","tag-moms","tag-mothers","tag-sons"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - 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