Facebook (www.facebook.com\/LIFEblog<\/a>), a group of us agreed to challenge ourselves to a 21 day fast from all negative self judgment.<\/p>\nThe more criticism of self, the lower one\u2019s level of happiness and confidence.<\/p>\n
On the surface, it appears we\u2019re dealing thought alone. Yet, the source of these toxic thoughts bears noting because therein lies the power to transform the experience of LIFE.<\/p>\n
The voice of negativity is the ego\u2019s. Its goal is to survive and protect itself.<\/p>\n
The ego manifests in the\u00a0aggrandizement and criticism of self and others. It builds up, destroys, then rescues, protects and repeats the cycle. Through this insanity, it retains control.<\/p>\n
Ending the reign of the ego comes through awareness, not resistance, judgment or criticism.<\/p>\n
When one steps back and acknowledges thoughts of negativity, superiority or loathing, a space is created between the Observer and the thoughts. This ability to watch the mind think, reveals that YOU are the Observer, not the mind.<\/p>\n
Spend regular quiet time withdrawing from the changing swirls appearing outside of you and rest in the reality of your eternal self,\u00a0the real YOU, unassailable and whole.<\/p>\n
Watch the ego\u2019s thoughts, don\u2019t think, judge or resist, just shine awareness on them.\u00a0The ego dies not from assault, but from starvation.<\/p>\n
Your Higher Self, the real YOU, knows that only the changeless is true and that peace is constant.<\/p>\n
When you catch yourself swimming in the ego\u2019s pools of illusion, connect to your eternal self by asking: Who is it that is watching?<\/p>\n
The more you realize that you are not your thoughts\/emotions and develop the ability to stand aside and watch, the more space is created between YOU and the ego.<\/p>\n
This is where love, Oneness, and timeless ease rule. This is home.<\/p>\n
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