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<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n\u00a0<\/p><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n She was one of the noblest women around, coming from a very prominent family. She was also quite beautiful and the holder of a considerable amount of wealth, being a prominent businesswoman. To marry her would have been a great feat for any man, and indeed, quite a few of the most prominent and wealthy men in society had asked for her hand. Yet, she rejected them all; already being a widow, she had lost the desire to marry again.<\/p>\n Until he came into her life. He was young man of 25, and although he was also of a noble family, he was an orphan and was not a man of many means. He had made a meager living tending sheep in the hills surrounding the city. Yet, he had an impeccable moral character, and he was widely known as one of the most honest men around. That is what attracted her to him: she was looking for someone honest who could conduct business for her, as she \u2013 a woman in a fiercely patriarchal society \u2013 could not do it herself. So, he started working for her.<\/p>\n After he came back from his first business trip, she asked her servant, whom she sent with him, about him and his conduct. The servant amazed her by his report: this young man was the kindest, gentlest man he had ever met. Never did he treat the servant harshly, as many others do. Yet, there was more: as they traveled in the heat of the desert, the servant noticed that a cloud had followed them the entire time, shading them from the blazing sun. The businesswoman was quite impressed with her new employee.<\/p>\n Not only that, this new employee proved to be an astute businessman in his own right. He took his employer\u2019s merchandise, sold it, and with the profits bought other merchandise that he sold again, thus profiting twice. All this was enough for her: the embers of love in her heart that were once extinguished re-kindled again, and she resolved to marry this young man, who was 15 years younger than she.<\/p>\n So, she sent her sister to this young man. She asked him, \u201cWhy are you not married, yet?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cFor lack of means,\u201d he answered.<\/p>\n \u201cWhat if I could offer you a wife of nobility, beauty, and wealth? Would you be interested?\u201d she told him.<\/p>\n He replied in the affirmative, but when she mentioned her sister, the young employee chuckled in amazement.<\/p>\n \u201cHow could I marry her? She has turned down the most noble men in the city, much wealthier and prominent than me, a poor shepherd,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n \u201cDon\u2019t you worry,\u201d the sister replied, \u201cI\u2019ll take care of it.\u201d<\/p>\n Not long after, the wealthy businesswoman married her young employee, and it was the beginning of one of the most loving, happiest, and sacred marriages in all of human history: that of Prophet Muhammad and Khadijah, the daughter of Khuwaylid. When they were married, the Prophet was 25 years old, and Khadijah was 40. Yet, that did not bother the Prophet one bit. He loved her so deeply, and she loved him as deeply. They were married for 25 years, and she bore him seven children: 3 sons and 4 daughters. All of the sons died in young age. Khadijah was a source of immense love, strength, and comfort for the Prophet Muhammad, and he leaned heavily on this love and support on the most important night of his life.<\/p>\n While he was meditating in cave of Hira, the Angel Gabriel came to the Prophet Muhammad and revealed to him the first verses of the Qur\u2019an and declared to him that he was to be a Prophet. The experience terrified the Prophet Muhammad, and he ran home, jumping into Khadijah\u2019s arms crying, \u201cCover me! Cover me!\u201d She was startled by his terror, and after soothing and comforting him for a while, the Prophet was able to calm down and relate to her his experience.<\/p>\n The Prophet feared he was going mad or being possessed.<\/p>\n Khadijah put all his fears to rest: \u201cDo not worry,\u201d she said, \u201cfor by Him who has dominion over Khadijah\u2019s soul, I hope that you are the Prophet of this nation. Allah would never humiliate you, for you are good to your relatives, you are true to your word, you help those who are in need, you support the weak, you feed the guest and you answer the call of those who are in distress.\u201d She then took him to her cousin, Waraqah ibn Nawfal \u2013 a scholar well-versed in the Judeo-Christian scripture \u2013 and he confirmed to the Prophet that his experience was Divine and he was to be the Last Prophet.<\/p>\n After his ministry began, and the opposition of his people became harsh and brutal, Khadijah was always there to support the Prophet Muhammad, sacrificing all of her wealth to support the cause of Islam. When the Prophet and his family was banished to the hills outside of Mecca, she went there with him, and the three years of hardship and deprivation eventually led to her death. The Prophet Muhammad mourned her deeply, and even after her death, the Prophet would send food and support to Khadijah\u2019s friends and relatives, out of love for his first wife.<\/p>\n Once, years after Khadijah died, he came across a necklace that she once wore. When he saw it, he remembered her and began to cry and mourn. His love for her never died, so much so, that his later wife A\u2019isha became jealous of her. Once she asked the Prophet if Khadijah had been the only woman worthy of his love. The Prophet replied: \u201cShe believed in me when no one else did; she accepted Islam when people rejected me; and she helped and comforted me when there was no one else to lend me a helping hand.\u201d<\/p>\n Much has been made and said about the Prophet Muhammad\u2019s (pbuh) multiple marriages. There are many who smear the Prophet (pbuh) as a womanizing philanderer, citing those multiple marriages. This is total garbage. If, God forbid, the Prophet (pbuh) were anything of the sort, he would have taken advantage of his youth to do such a thing. He did not. He was with no other women before Khadijah, who was 15 years his senior, and he had no other wife alongside her, as was common custom at that time.<\/p>\n It was only after Khadijah died, God rest her soul, that he took on more than one wife at a time. Most of these wives were widows, whom the Prophet (pbuh) married to care after them, or they were they were the daughters of prominent Arab chieftains, so that the Prophet (pbuh) could form a cohesive Muslim society out of a fiercely tribalistic (and barbaric) Arab culture. The smears against the Prophet (pbuh) fall flat on their faces once the light of truth shines brightly upon them.<\/p>\n In a song about the Prophet and Khadjiah, Muslim rappers Native Deen sing: \u201cWe look for stories of love in places dark and cold\/When we have a guiding light for the whole world to behold.\u201d Many of what we call \u201clove stories\u201d today are nothing more than stories of lust and desire, physical attraction disguised as love.<\/p>\n Yet, I can find no love story more powerful, more spiritually uplifting, more awe inspiring as that of the Prophet Muhammad and Khadijah. It is a shining example of what an ideal marriage is, and if I ever claim that I love my wife, I must gauge my actions with that of the Prophet. As the country commemorates Valentine\u2019s Day, and everywhere we turn this month, \u201clove is in the air,\u201d I cannot help but reflect upon, what is to me, the greatest of all love stories: that of Muhammad and Khadijah. Even with all of its amazing creative talent, Hollywood could not have come up with a story greater than this.<\/p>\n Photo: Tana Kerkush via flickr<\/a> under a Creative Commons license.<\/i><\/p>\n Hesham A. Hassaballa is a Chicago physician and writer. He is the co-author of \u201cThe Beliefnet Guide to Islam<\/a>,\u201d published by Doubleday in 2006. His blog is at godfaithpen.com<\/a>. This piece originally appeared in BeliefNet<\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" I can find no love story more powerful, more spiritually uplifting, more awe inspiring as that of the Prophet Muhammad and Khadijah. 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