{"id":2697,"date":"2008-03-30T19:00:00","date_gmt":"2008-03-30T23:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/altmuslim\/?p=2697"},"modified":"2019-05-15T01:01:45","modified_gmt":"2019-05-15T05:01:45","slug":"men_do_cry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/altmuslim\/2008\/03\/men_do_cry\/","title":{"rendered":"Movie &quot;Stop Loss&quot;: Men do cry"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><table cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" border=\"0\" align=\"right\">\n<tr>\n<td><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.altmuslim.com\/ee_images\/stop_loss.jpg\" border=\"0\"><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td align=\"right\">\n<div class=\"caption\">All surged out<\/div>\n<p><\/p><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/table>\n<p>[<i>Stop-Loss: In the United States military, \u201cstop-loss\u201d refers to the involuntary extension of a service member\u2019s enlistment contract in order to retain them beyond the normal term of service.<\/i>]<\/p>\n<p>The new MTV-produced movie \u201cStop-Loss\u201d directed by Kimberley Peirce (Boys Don\u2019t Cry) could also be called \u201cDeer Hunter\u201d for the Generation-Y, post internet, digi-cam crowd. Following a string of commercially unsuccessful yet underrated Iraq war movies such as <i>In the Valley of Elah<\/i>, <i>Rendition<\/i>, <i>Redacted<\/i>, <i>Lions for Lambs<\/i>, and <i>Home of the Brave<\/i>, Peirce and company hope young, handsome actors accompanied by a contemporary soundtrack will entice the jaded, war weary audience dollar. Unlike some previous titles, Peirce\u2019s film manages to construct incisive and human character studies of Texan soldiers suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder in this powerful albeit maddeningly inconsistent movie.<\/p>\n<p>Literally, the title \u201cStop-Loss\u201d refers to the military\u2019s contractual policy allowing the government to retain soldiers beyond their contractual obligations per the orders of the President. John Kerry, along with many critics, refers to the policy as a \u201cback door draft\u201d unfairly forcing unwilling soldiers back to the maddening theater of war due to low enrollment rates and sparse combat units. The movie portrays the devastating effects of the policy on U.S. Staff Sergeant Brandon King (Ryan Phillipe), his best friends and fellow soldiers Steve (Channing Tatum) and Tommy (Joseph Gordon Levitt) and their Texan community.<\/p>\n<p>Figuratively, the title \u201cStop-Loss\u201d refers to what happens when soldiers abruptly return home for a brief leave after witnessing the harrowing carnage of the Iraq war. When the soldiers \u201cstop\u201d and relax outside the chaotic theatre of war, the downtime reminds them of oppressive, terrifying memories of \u201closs\u201d \u2013 death, carnage, guilt and remorse. The brutal, unrelenting pulse of war when juxtaposed to the idyllic calm of normalcy exposes inner demons and frustrations far more dangerous than bullet wounds and facial scars.<\/p>\n<p>Before we are formally introduced to the characters, the movie offers us one of many \u201cdigi-cam\u201d montages, a pastiche of homemade movies shot by our protagonists documenting their daily life in Iraq on cell phones and digital video cams uploaded on to the net with a overbearing rock-metal soundtrack.<\/p>\n<p>After the montage, we see our soldiers manning a security checkpoint in Tikrit, Iraq. They unwittingly follow a highly armed insurgent vehicle, which bypasses the security measures, straight into an inner city ambush. The \u201chadjis\u201d fire from the rooftops, behind cars, inside alleyways and even from windows of second story buildings.  Brandon\u2019s unit suffers heavy causalities as best friends die suddenly, others are wounded and disfigured, and the rest forever bear the torment of a vivid, guilty memory. The sequence, unlike the one in the simplistic and racist <i>The Kingdom<\/i>, neither glorifies nor exploits as it documents the combat without a soundtrack and gratuitous, pulse pounding beats. The first ten minutes color the characters\u2019 psychology for the rest of the movie.<\/p>\n<p>The strong first half of the movie chronicles the soldiers\u2019 return to their hometown in Texas where they are met with a parade and a grateful throng of family and friends. Peirce, like she did with <i>Boys Don\u2019t Cry<\/i>, works her best when tightly focusing her microscope on the day to day lives and behaviors of small town folk confronted with horrors beyond their comprehension [in <i>Boys<\/i>, Peirce quite effectively portrayed a vicious hate crime against transgendered teen \u201cBrandon\u201d Teena, who was born Teena Brandon]. The movie unfortunately loses its narrative engine and thematic focus in the second half when Brandon, having just learned he is stop-lossed, goes AWOL and drives cross country for Washington D.C. with his best friend\u2019s fianc\u00e9, portrayed realistically and without pretension by talented newcomer Abbie Cornish, to plead his case with a Texan Senator.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, Tommy, played with a brilliant understatement by Joseph Gordon Levitt, conceals his conflict with alcohol and flashes of anger at having failed to save his best friend in Iraq. When a well intentioned man naively asks his wife for a dance at the community festival, Tommy \u2013 having just discussed his desire to go back to Iraq and kick \u201chadji ass\u201d \u2013 explodes with fisti-cuffs. Brandon\u2019s best friend Steve, preparing for \u201cmarriage with the Army\u201d according to his fianc\u00e9, digs a man hole trench on his front lawn drunkenly thinking he is back in Iraq.<\/p>\n<p>After Brandon\u2019s AWOL, the movie meanders with plot contrivances and forced situations, prompting unnatural character reactions. Brandon, played well by Ryan Phillipe, brutally attacks a group of muggers who, conveniently, break into his car and steal valuables. Mistaking them for \u201chadjis,\u201d Brandon forces them to sit execution style as his tortured mind takes him back to Iraq, blending reality with distorted PTSD-memory.  He also quite fortuitously \u2013 and conveniently \u2013 bumps into another AWOL, Stop-Loss-ed family describing the hellish consequences of living \u201con the run,\u201d one of the few options for those that ignore the policy and abandon their return to duty.<\/p>\n<p>The last 15 minutes, in which Brandon returns home due to an inevitable and foreseen tragedy, narrow the focus on the devastating effects the war has on the soldiers and their loved ones. If Peirce had only kept her camera trained on this piece of the narrative, the movie would be tighter and more emotionally resonant.  The quiet, subtle moments expressing repressed rage and shame shine more vividly than the bombastic \u201cconfessional\u201d scenes Ryan Phillipe has towards the end. For example, when Phillipe\u2019s character is urged by his superior to do a \u201crah-rah-rah\u201d recruitment speech in front of his community, he stumbles, stutters, and then simply recalls how he could only remember how the smell of onions reminded him of home.<\/p>\n<p>Small scenes like this humanize the suffering of these young men \u2013 boys really \u2013 forced to project a superficial, inflated and unrealistic, hyper-masculine exterior masking all their internal pain. For those quick enough to spot it, Peirce intelligently places a \u201cJohn Wayne\u201d image in one of the montage sequences to comment on this society\u2019s unhealthy projection of a fake and exaggerated notion of masculinity, in which remorse, sadness and tears are signs of weakness and cowardice. John Wayne, that celluloid vision of rugged, American manhood, was in reality a U.S. Navy reject who fell into films after his football career was destroyed due to a body surfing accident (yes, a bodysurfing accident).<\/p>\n<p>Movies like \u201cStop-Loss,\u201d although not perfect by any means, can at least show a society that indeed boys \u2013 and even men \u2013 do cry, especially those serving our nation in Iraq.<\/p>\n<p><i>\u201cStop-Loss\u201d is currently in wide release in the United States, Canada, and the United Kingdom, and releasing elsewhere in Europe through June.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Wajahat Ali is Pakistani Muslim American who is neither a terrorist nor a saint. He is a playwright, essayist, humorist, and Attorney at Law, whose work, \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/www.domesticcrusaders.com\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">The Domestic Crusaders<\/a>,\u201d is the first major play about Muslim Americans living in a post 9-11 America. 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