{"id":253,"date":"2009-12-11T07:09:00","date_gmt":"2009-12-11T07:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/americanbuddhist\/2009\/12\/what-unites-us\/"},"modified":"2009-12-11T07:09:00","modified_gmt":"2009-12-11T07:09:00","slug":"what-unites-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/americanbuddhist\/2009\/12\/what-unites-us.html","title":{"rendered":"What Unites Us"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><blockquote><p>\u201cWhat unites us is <span style=\"font-style: italic\">much greater<\/span> than what separates us\u2026. It is necessary \u2026 to rid ourselves of stereotypes, of old habits. And above all, it is necessary to recognize the unity that already exists.\u201d \u2013 Pope John Paul II<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold\">What unites us in <\/span><span style=\"font-style: italic;font-weight: bold\">samsara<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: bold\"> is our basic nature as beings, caught in ignorance, causing suffering both to ourselves and others.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic\"><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic\">Sabbe tasanti da.ndassa \u2013 sabbe bhaayanti maccuno;<\/span><br><span style=\"font-style: italic\"> Attaana.m upama.m katvaa \u2013 na haneyya na ghaataye.<\/span><\/p>\n\n<blockquote><p>All [beings] fear the stick\/rod, and all fear death.<br>Having made an example of yourself, do not kill nor cause to be killed.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic\">Sabbe tasanti da.ndassa \u2013 sabbesa.m jiivita.m piya.m;<\/span><br><span style=\"font-style: italic\"> Attaana.m upama.m katvaa \u2013 na haneyya na ghaataye.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>All [beings] fear the stick\/rod, to all life is dear.<br>Having made an example of yourself, do not kill nor cause to be killed.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>(Dhp. 10:129-130 \u2013 translations thanks to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tipitaka.net\/pali\/pali.php?palidd=b04\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Bhikkhu Bodhi and students<\/a> with some amendments by yours truly)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ngm.nationalgeographic.com\/ngm\/0512\/feature4\/multimedia.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt;float: left;cursor: pointer;width: 320px;height: 218px\" src=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_fyeYpxfdjuI\/SyHwuGQ0esI\/AAAAAAAAAvE\/T6yWBnMBmUM\/s320\/National+Geographic.jpg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\"><\/a>Watching this brief slideshow, I see many faces, many styles of clothing, hair, etc, that are unlike mine. There are:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>men in Tibetan monks\u2019 robes playing softball,<\/li>\n<li>men in business suits in seated meditation,<\/li>\n<li>corporate VPs sleeping in the streets to develop empathy,<\/li>\n<li>Thai monks tying robes on trees, <\/li>\n<li>NYC urbanites and Santa Fe criminals doing Tai Chi,<\/li>\n<li>Zen practitioners in Auschwitz,<\/li>\n<li>Basketball coaches teaching their players meditation techniques,<\/li>\n<li>A row of (Western) monastics sporting potato chips in their alms-bowls<\/li>\n<li>And more\u2026<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>What I love about it is the diversity in the images with the underlying story of unity. Even the diners at the restaurant with the giant Buddha statue are seeking some form of relief from <span style=\"font-style: italic\">samsara<\/span>. Perhaps some are even Zen masters. <span style=\"font-weight: bold\">And yet it is all too easy for us to pick on them; are they exploiting the Buddha, the <a href='https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/library\/buddhism' target='_blank'>Dharma<\/a>, or the Sangha?<\/span> Are those other people in the <span style=\"font-style: italic\">wrong<\/span><span> posture? Are the monks ordaining trees out of tune with reality? Are the Zen folks at Auschwitz just there to make themselves look good? Is the meditation-basketball thing just another ploy to exploit (an easily expoited word) young men for money?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>We could go on.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is, we all have flaws. We all stumble, even those who try hard to stumble toward awakening. Perhaps simply <span style=\"font-style: italic\">accepting that<\/span> is a great big stumbling-step in the right direction.<\/p>\n<p>A week ago at the Vipassana group I sit with, we listened to Pema Ch\u00f6dr\u00f6n talk about the things that give rise to <span style=\"font-style: italic\">shen pa <\/span>(clinging, or being hooked). <span style=\"font-weight: bold\"> What arose for me while listening to that talk and perhaps during the meditation afterward was the \u201csuperior attitude of criticism\u201d that I experience here and there in life.<\/span> Sometimes I\u2019ve had it directed <span style=\"font-style: italic\">at<\/span> me, sometimes I\u2019ve caught myself directing it at others (sorry, Scott at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.djbuddha.org\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Buddha is my DJ<\/a>, and others), and sometimes I see it amongst friends -online and off- aimed at parties I am sometimes sympathetic to and sometimes not.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand there is so much <span style=\"font-style: italic\">good<\/span> criticism out there! Constructive, caring criticism!  Criticism with a smile or odd humor! I get plenty of that (Tom, et al.) and I do truly appreciate it.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand <span style=\"font-weight: bold\">I, and I think I\u2019m like most people on this, recoil and draw up defenses when the criticism comes in harshly, with a \u201csuperior attitude\u201d<\/span> (especially when it\u2019s from someone I <span style=\"font-style: italic\">know is really, really inferior<\/span> \u2013 j\/k).  I, too, fear the stick (verbal or otherwise).<\/p>\n<p>Meditating on this, I hope\/vow to be kinder in my own criticism of idiots like\u2026 oh, wait\u2026 of the other samsaric beings out there just trying, in their own ways, to make life a little better for themselves and the rest of us.<br><\/p>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/tracker\/7907151-8117947001468598669?l=americanbuddhist.blogspot.com\" alt=\"\"><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cWhat unites us is much greater than what separates us\u2026. It is necessary \u2026 to rid ourselves of stereotypes, of old habits. 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