{"id":6147,"date":"2016-09-05T17:56:18","date_gmt":"2016-09-05T23:56:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/americanbuddhist\/?p=6147"},"modified":"2016-09-09T10:30:02","modified_gmt":"2016-09-09T16:30:02","slug":"a-tibetan-buddhist-nun-teaches-joy-instead-of-willpower-ego-and-guilt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/americanbuddhist\/2016\/09\/a-tibetan-buddhist-nun-teaches-joy-instead-of-willpower-ego-and-guilt.html","title":{"rendered":"A Tibetan Buddhist Nun teaches JOY instead of Willpower, Ego, and Guilt"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"http:\/\/khandrorinpoche.org\/jetsun-khandro-rinpoche\/biography\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">Jets\u00fcn Khandro Rinpoche<\/a> is one of the few female Tibetan lamas (teachers) in the world today and a recognized reincarnation (tulku) of a past great female teacher. She has taught <a href='https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/library\/buddhism' target='_blank'>Buddhism<\/a> across Europe, the US, and Asia. She will be conducting a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lotusgardens.org\/programs\/vajrayana-retreat\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">long Vajrayana retreat in Virginia<\/a> starting later this week and you can find her <a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2bPySTc\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">Mahamudra\/Dzogchen teachings on DVD<\/a>, and \u2013 better for beginners! \u2013 her <a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2bPxHTR\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">complete guide to the Tibetan path to awakening in book form<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Below she talks about Western students\u2019 common over-reliance on\u00a0<em>willpower<\/em>, which has the dual effects of puffing up egos and setting up disappointing defeats.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAdvice to Western Students\u201d<\/p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/89274591\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"10 Jetsun Khandro Rinpoche - Advice to Western Students\" webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<p>As she says of Westerners, \u201cone characteristic that I find very delightfully amusing is \u2013 they think everything is dependent upon their willpower. And I think that\u2019s, in a way, nice. It\u2019s very nice. Maybe that\u2019s how it should be. But if it goes to the extent of disregarding the\u00a0power of karma, and collective karma especially: karma of the land, karma of the teacher, karma of the time, karma of the place, karma of\u00a0<em>everyone<\/em>, the retinue, the sangha, karma of <a href='https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/library\/buddhism' target='_blank'>Dharma<\/a> itself, they\u00a0<strong>maybe ending up putting tremendous pressure on themselves<\/strong>. And then that goes into the spin of either being too overly confident, or then the ebb of that which comes in feeling terribly frustrated with oneself and being guilt-ridden.<\/p>\n<p>A sad part of this, as she says, is that so many Westerners, \u201close the joy of having become a practitioner.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Go deeper: Listen to this 30-minute teaching by Harvey Aronson on \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/dawnmountain.org\/buddha-brain-and-body-shaping-our-karma-opening-teaching\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">Buddha, Brain, and Body: Shaping our Karma<\/a>\u201d which goes deeper into concepts of gratitude, getting beyond our ordinary (egoic) mind, and karma.<\/p>\n<p>And in contemporary thought, a Chicago Tribune writer, Nicole Radziszewski, explores how <a href=\"http:\/\/www.chicagotribune.com\/suburbs\/oak-park\/lifestyles\/ct-oak-mama-move-tl-0908-20160831-column.html\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">\u201cwillpower can be a jerk\u201d<\/a> and mindfulness can be a welcome alternative.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jets\u00fcn Khandro Rinpoche is one of the few female Tibetan lamas (teachers) in the world today and a recognized reincarnation (tulku) of a past great female teacher. 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