{"id":655894,"date":"2017-07-09T07:22:44","date_gmt":"2017-07-09T12:22:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/andygill\/?p=655894"},"modified":"2017-07-17T06:52:04","modified_gmt":"2017-07-17T11:52:04","slug":"brief-note-people-deliberately-try-bring","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/andygill\/brief-note-people-deliberately-try-bring\/","title":{"rendered":"A Brief Note on People Who Deliberately Try to Bring You Down"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p class=\"p1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-655899\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/604\/2017\/07\/A-Brief-Note-Andy-Gill--e1499552452560.jpg\" alt=\"A Brief Note Bring Down Andy Gill\" width=\"550\" height=\"323\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><b><\/b>The other day I was meeting with a friend and we were just chatting about how it seems as if everyone we come across is exhausted or pretending to not be exhausted. And, by \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/wp.production.patheos.com\/blogs\/andygill\/files\/2017\/07\/EXHAUSTION-ANDY-GILL-.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\">exhausted<\/a>\u201d what I really mean is depleted.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Being one of these people that feel depleted to the point of exhaustion, my m.o. is to find a solution.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Part of what\u2019s so exhausting these days is the constant dodging of never ending negativity; seemingly, it\u2019s coming from each and every single way; there\u2019s no escape.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Playing basketball; in the workplace; on TV; in the news; on a phone, that\u2019s in your pocket, with never-ending notifications.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">We\u2019re constantly resisting multiple billion dollar industries all vying for a single moment of our attention. And, once they inevitably gain our attention their job is to convince us that we\u2019re not enough and the answer is in what they have.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><em><b>Not Resisting is the Best Act of Resisting\u2026\u00a0<\/b><\/em><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">As our conversation went on, we spoke about the things that are within our control.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Do we have to always have a phone on ourselves?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">What would happen if we redirected our energy towards things that we know to give us energy in return?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Can we end our days with a surplus of positive and meaningful energy? If so, then how so?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">In this particular conversation, we both just so happened to be POC; so, we naturally touched upon the frustration of existing within \u201cwhite spaces\u201d; always feeling isolated; different; beneath; stuck within their constructed social hierarchy; used as a means of boosting their self-esteem.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\">Do not allow others to suck you into their anxiety. <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/repeat?src=hash\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">#repeat<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2014 andy gill (@itsandygill) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/itsandygill\/status\/837381731862863872\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">March 2, 2017<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" async=\"\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">It\u2019s fine that these hierarchies exist; it was the realization that we don\u2019t have to remain in any relationships that wrongfully perpetuate this type of social hierarchy (which is part of why I left the Eurocentric Church).<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><b>The best way to resist people bringing you down is counterintuitively by lifting them up. <\/b>Of course, there are people you\u2019ll lift up who you\u2019ll also not let into your life; it\u2019s the understanding that many times lifting others up disempowers their hate; it doesn\u2019t resist, so much as it just is.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">(A week in, I can say, this is a far <span class=\"s1\"><i>less<\/i><\/span> exhausting way of living, in contrast, to constantly resisting).<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">It\u2019s simply finding spaces where hierarchy is just not even a thing. It\u2019s something acknowledged exists; it just isn\u2019t the opted for reality within your selected family.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Anyways, this was just disjointed and unorganized thoughts I felt might help.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The other day I was meeting with a friend and we were just chatting about how it seems as if everyone we come across is exhausted or pretending to not be exhausted. And, by \u201cexhausted\u201d what I really mean is depleted. 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