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https://wp-media.patheos.com/blogs/sites/337/2013/05/publictool.com_.jpg290284Flailing in Sunnyvale: I'm a Pagan with no musical talent and no rhythm. I have a horrible singing voice, can't keep a beat, and I'm a terrible dancer. At large group ritual there's often no place for the musically challenged, and I'm not sure how to bow out of the singing and/or dancing without offending people. What should I do? Dear Flail - What should you do? I think you should wait in the car.