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July 21, 2014
Be Grateful For His Creativity Rather Than Grumpy About His Clutter
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July 07, 2014
Sticks and Stones: Your Words Can Build (or Demolish) Your Husband’s Security
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June 16, 2014
She Values Your Time More than Your Cash
Dear Shaunti, For years now, my wife has been talking about how great it would...
June 09, 2014
My husband is in over his head – how do I fix him?
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May 26, 2014
Let Your Husband Unwind Before You Unload
Dear Shaunti, I am SO DONE with my husband’s grumpiness when he gets home from...
April 21, 2014
Don’t Force Your Sex Life into Hibernation Mode By Choosing Sleep Over Sex
Dear Shaunti, We have young kids, and often I’m so exhausted that I just want...
April 10, 2014
Do We Have to Put Our Conflicts To Bed Before Lights Out?
Dear Shaunti, I’m about to pull my very tired hair out. My wife and I...
April 03, 2014
Beyond the Candlelight: Finding Romance In Unusual Places
Dear Shaunti, I wish my husband were more romantic. I love spending time with him—we...
March 31, 2014
Gain Respect By Being Direct
Dear Shaunti, How do I get my wife to not play games, and just share...
March 27, 2014
The Process of Processing: Give Your Man Some Space
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March 24, 2014
Lust at First Glance? The Difference in Seeing vs. Gawking
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March 20, 2014
Being the Bigger Person in “The Little Things”: Showing Your Wife that You Care
Dear Shaunti, I work long hours at a power plant, and my wife often sends...
March 17, 2014
Let’s Get Physical: Health Body, Healthy Marriage
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March 13, 2014
Rip Up Your Laundry List: No Husband Wants a Scorekeeper
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March 10, 2014
Independence Can Be Isolating: Find Ways to Show Your Man You Need Him
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March 06, 2014
Good Dates Begin With Good Compliments
Dear Shaunti, I’m in deep soup with my wife, and I don’t know why. We...
February 27, 2014
Worn Out from Worry: How Can I Help My Wife Stop Obsessing?
Dear Shaunti, I love my wife, but it drives me crazy when she obsesses over...
February 24, 2014
Throw Him a Bone When He Picks up the Broom
This choice seems like such a little thing to us women, but 72% of the...
February 20, 2014
Looking for Approval? Start By Praising Your Provider Husband
Dear Shaunti, I’m a working mom with two kids. We have a comfortable lifestyle, no...
February 17, 2014
Disappointed on Valentine’s Day
Dear Shaunti, I was really looking forward to our second Valentine's Day together, until I...
February 17, 2014
Love in the Blender: Appreciating Your Husband’s Gift-Giving Style
Dear Shaunti, I was really looking forward to our second Valentine's Day together, until...
February 13, 2014
Priming Your Wife for Primetime
Dear Shaunti, It seems like I am always the one to initiate sex. Even when...
January 28, 2014
Want to Fix Your Wife’s Problem? Step 1: Listen. Step 2: Repeat.
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