Q:\u00a0 I have a friend that I have a very unique relationship with and it creates many questions and pretty much no answers. Very recently our relationship has been intense after a long cooling period.\u00a0 He is never really honest about his feelings and contradicts himself aA: lot. If you can give me any insight I would really appreciate it! <\/em><\/p>\n Lynn: There are a lot of \u201cpoints of contact\u201d between your two charts which bring the two of you together and give you a sense of harmony.\u00a0 Your Suns are conjunct, which is not that strong of a compatibility signal but still it shows that you both have the same Taurean needs for stability and securty.\u00a0 Where your Moon is in Taurus, his Moon is in Scorpio where it opposes yours, so there is some emotional tension there.<\/p>\n Another issue is that your friend, with his Scorpio Moon, craves intensity and passion but then his Venus is in Aries, and it is opposed by Mars the ruler of Aries.\u00a0 The technical term for this is \u201cdouble whammy,\u201d where there are two astrological statements that say the same thing.\u00a0 There is conflict here between his desire to be in relationship (Venus) and his need for adventure and battle (Aries\/Mars).\u00a0 Your Neptune forms a square to the opposition in his chart, and this is confusing for him.\u00a0 At times he likely feels overwhelmed by the dreamy romance that the two of you find yourselves in and he needs to back away to find himself again.\u00a0 Your Venus is in Taurus where you prefer stability to adventure in your relationships, but it\u2019s important for you to give him the space to be able to maintain his balance.\u00a0 He will not always be able to feed your security needs so you will need to strengthen your own internal balance.<\/p>\n Transiting Pluto is squaring Mars in his chart right now.\u00a0 This started back in January when Pluto entered Capricorn, so this could be a challenging period for him.\u00a0 His Venus is being affected by association and he will be deepening his experience in many different ways. This may be the root of the changes that you are experiencing right now.\u00a0 Don\u2019t be surprised if he still needs to cool off at times \u2013 finding that balance between the intensity of Scorpio and the freedom of Aries will be more difficult under the Pluto cycle.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Q:\u00a0 I have a friend that I have a very unique relationship with and it creates many questions and pretty much no answers. Very recently our relationship has been intense after a long cooling period.\u00a0 He is never really honest about his feelings and contradicts himself aA: lot. If you can give me any insight […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":537,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[86,1608],"class_list":["post-3962","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-advice","tag-pluto-cycle"],"yoast_head":"\n