{"id":3198,"date":"2014-05-04T11:32:45","date_gmt":"2014-05-04T15:32:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/barefootandpregnant\/?p=3198"},"modified":"2015-01-02T12:05:29","modified_gmt":"2015-01-02T17:05:29","slug":"how-the-ogre-does-love-songs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/barefootandpregnant\/2014\/05\/how-the-ogre-does-love-songs.html","title":{"rendered":"How the Ogre Does Love Songs"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>There is never enough music in our house. Neither the Ogre nor I are musicians, so even though we both really love music, it isn\u2019t part of the essential tapestry of our lives the way stories and poems are. But every once in a while, one of us will realize that we need more music, and we\u2019ll spend a few weeks listening to some old cd\u2019s or familiar Youtube playlists.<\/p>\n<p>When things started to get bad for me a few months ago, the Ogre felt really helpless. He\u2019s never been the type to make me a mixed tape that will more eloquently express his feelings, and we\u2019ve never had a \u201csong\u201d or anything like that. (Actually we have a poem instead, cause we\u2019re geeks.) But one day he heard \u201cThe Monster\u201d on the radio, embedded it in an email, and sent it to me.<\/p>\n<p>Music is another language, really. That song worked its way into my mind and helped me hold it together at times when I felt like I was falling apart. I listened to it over and over and over, so the Ogre began searching for more songs.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s not a popular radio type of guy. When we do listen to the radio, it\u2019s almost always classic rock (him) or 80\u2019s metal (me). But for the last few months, he\u2019s suffered through endless repetitions of \u201cWrecking Ball\u201d and \u201cDark Horse\u201d to separate the wheat from the chaff for me.<\/p>\n<p>Almost every day, I got a new email with a new song and a quick note about why he sent it. It meant so much to me, and was yet another example of how unbelievably amazing my husband is, so I thought I\u2019d share some of the songs with y\u2019all.<\/p>\n<p>(<em>language and content warning on this one-do not watch it with kids around!<\/em>)<\/p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"P!nk - F**kin&#039; Perfect (Official Video - Explicit)\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ocDlOD1Hw9k?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<p><em>(here\u2019s the clean version if you\u2019d prefer it, no video on the screen, just lyrics)<\/em><\/p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Pink - Perfect Lyrics\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/58L9zi5DtLo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Katy Perry - Roar\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/CevxZvSJLk8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<p>(<em>content warning on this one too-jeez, Pink!)<\/em><\/p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"P!nk - Raise Your Glass (Official Video)\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/XjVNlG5cZyQ?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Imagine Dragons - Demons (Official Music Video)\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/mWRsgZuwf_8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Phillip Phillips - Home\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/HoRkntoHkIE?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<p><em>This one is far and away my favorite\u2026I love it so much<\/em><\/p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"OneRepublic - Counting Stars\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/hT_nvWreIhg?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<p>My husband\u2026he gets me. He speaks my language, and when he doesn\u2019t, he figures out a new one we can speak together. I\u2019ll never be able to express what he\u2019s been for me, but last week I took a page out of his playbook and sent him an song via email.<\/p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Phillip Phillips - Gone, Gone, Gone\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/oozQ4yV__Vw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying pop music is better than Yeats or anything, but man\u2026it makes you feel a lot better, a lot quicker.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is never enough music in our house. 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