{"id":29704,"date":"2019-05-12T01:41:43","date_gmt":"2019-05-12T05:41:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/bibleandculture\/?p=29704"},"modified":"2019-03-15T10:44:01","modified_gmt":"2019-03-15T14:44:01","slug":"confronting-ot-controversies-part-thirty-five","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/bibleandculture\/2019\/05\/12\/confronting-ot-controversies-part-thirty-five\/","title":{"rendered":"Confronting OT Controversies&#8212; Part Thirty-Five"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/55\/2019\/04\/51AS-GBPGnL._SX322_BO1204203200_.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/55\/2019\/04\/51AS-GBPGnL._SX322_BO1204203200_.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"324\" height=\"499\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-29287\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Q. Towards the end of the book you touch on one of the major problems in the church\u2014 the failure to affirm the goodness of being single for the sake of the Lord and his kingdom, and the failure to embrace and be friend such folks. In fact, one church I was once in had a Sunday school class for older adults called \u2018Pairs and Spares\u2019! As if a single person was like a spare tire\u2014 just atrocious thinking! I agree with you that gays should be welcomed into the church as they are, and treated with love and respect. And I agree as well that same sex attracted Christians can and should be allowed to pursue ministry so long as they live by the celibacy in singleness principle. The real problem, the real issue is the church\u2019s failure to be a family to all persons in their midst. The Church is not supposed to merely be a support structure for biological or nuclear families. It is supposed to be a family to one and all. If we did a better job of that, I think we would have far less lonely singles struggling with various sorts of sexual inclinations. Would you agree?<\/p>\n<p>A. Amen and amen! I couldn\u2019t say it better.<\/p>\n<p>Thanks to Tremper for this helpful long running dialogue.  By all means\u2014 now go read his good book for yourself. <\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Q. Towards the end of the book you touch on one of the major problems in the church\u2014 the failure to affirm the goodness of being single for the sake of the Lord and his kingdom, and the failure to embrace and be friend such folks. 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