{"id":244,"date":"2013-11-21T18:19:57","date_gmt":"2013-11-21T22:19:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/billykangas\/?p=244"},"modified":"2013-11-22T15:08:12","modified_gmt":"2013-11-22T19:08:12","slug":"licking-my-wounds","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/billykangas\/2013\/11\/licking-my-wounds.html","title":{"rendered":"Licking My Wounds"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/394\/2013\/11\/fight.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-245\" title=\"fight\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/394\/2013\/11\/fight.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"634\" height=\"235\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>In<a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/billykangas\/2013\/11\/the-orant-is-now-on-patheos\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">\u00a0my\u00a0brief\u00a0time here at Patheos<\/a>\u00a0I have already caused a couple of fights, and I\u2019m feeling battered and bruised (it\u2019s not fun to have people doubt your faith, or call you names). As tough as it is to hear critiques I am so glad I was able to hear them this week. It helped me learn a few lessons:<\/p>\n<p>1.<strong>\u00a0Commentators\u00a0are drawn to blood!\u00a0<\/strong>If I want to get people to\u00a0comment\u00a0I should attack things other people have said. This is something I really am not prone to do most of the time but something I have done twice since coming here (once\u00a0about\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/billykangas\/2013\/11\/sarah-palin-the-popes-influencers-are-much-worse-than-you-think\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">Sarah Palin<\/a>, once\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/billykangas\/2013\/11\/no-father-z-you-are-the-icon-of-god\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">against an image posted by Fr. Z<\/a>). Both of these post have sparked a TON of feedback. Much of it has been very good and has helped me think more deeply about the issues I have brought up. Thank you! Some was less useful\u2026. which bring me to my next lesson.<\/p>\n<p>2.<strong>\u00a0People are prone to jump to conclusions\u00a0(and I am one of them).<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>In my first post about Palin I was trying to emphasis the radical call of the Gospel and people heard \u201cPalin hates the Pope.\u201d Some people loved this message and some people criticized this message, but it wasn\u2019t the message I was trying to say. I guess I need to make things clearer!<\/li>\n<li>In my second post I was trying to emphasis the way that the gathered people at Mass become a special icon of God, and people heard that I was trying to argue against facing east\u00a0during\u00a0the anaphora. This also was not my intention, I just didn\u2019t like the stick figure drawing.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>I was feeling frustrated by this but than I realized that <strong>I had done the same thing to Sarah Palin and Father Z!<\/strong>\u00a0<\/em><span style=\"font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;\">I assumed Sarah Palin was\u00a0slamming\u00a0Francis as liberal, but in reality she was expressing concern that some liberals might be misusing him.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;\">I was taking Fr. Z\u2019s image outside of the context of actual worship and that wasn\u2019t\u00a0fair\u00a0to him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>3.\u00a0<strong>If you don\u2019t clearly draw lines people will try to read between them.\u00a0<\/strong>I need to reestablish my voice. When I was living on my own little corner of the internet\u00a0my readers knew and understood my voice. They had journeyed with me for years. Now I \u00a0have a lot of people who are trying to feel me out for the first time. They assume I am against worship facing the east or that I hate Sarah Palin because I voice criticism. I need to learn to have grace and to take special efforts to make my own position and voice clear to all the new voices I have been given the privilege to interact with.<\/p>\n<p>So to all of you, I hope you will continue talking with me, and asking good questions,\u00a0and if at any point anything starts to sound off:<\/p>\n<ol start=\"1\">\n<li>reread,<\/li>\n<li>be charitable,<\/li>\n<li>and let me know how I might be clearer.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>I only write because I want to help people know and love Jesus Christ. I pray you will all continue to remind me of that vision. 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