{"id":1893,"date":"2011-06-26T22:47:27","date_gmt":"2011-06-27T05:47:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/breyeschow\/?p=1893"},"modified":"2011-06-27T00:21:09","modified_gmt":"2011-06-27T07:21:09","slug":"help-me-understand-why-is-same-sex-marriage-a-threat-to-my-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/breyeschow\/2011\/06\/26\/help-me-understand-why-is-same-sex-marriage-a-threat-to-my-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Help Me Understand: Why is Same-Sex Marriage a Threat to My Marriage?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

HELP ME UNDERSTAND<\/a><\/strong> \u2013 This is a series of posts where I invite those who disagree with me about a great many things political, theological and social to speak their minds. My aim is not to incite comment wars, but to encourage genuine interaction between those who truly want to understand from where the other is coming. Please pass these posts onto folks who might be willing to engage and if you have a good question for the series, feel free to fill out this brief survey<\/a>.
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In light of the recent New York State decision<\/a> legalizing same-sex marriage, the first question in the series will be on same-sex\u00a0marriage. \u00a0 I have been clear where I stand<\/a> on the question of same-sex marriage, I currently sit on the Board of CA Faith for Equality<\/a> and I have blessed same-sex\u00a0commitments in the past.\u00a0My question has to do with one of the major arguments that is raised against legal recognition of same-sex marriage namely that, \u201cSame sex marriage is a threat to traditional marriage.\u201d I do not assume that everyone who is against same-sex marriage uses this argument, but I think it is fair to say that this is one of the mostly widely used arguments heard in the public discourse.<\/p>\n

So if you hold this position about same-sex marriage, and feel up to putting your words out there for interaction, please answer me this question,<\/p>\n

How is same-sex marriage a threat to my traditional \u201cone man and one women\u201d 20+ year marriage or to the possible traditional marriage that any of my daughters may choose to enter into in the future?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

So there you have it. I know that there is likely to be some feisty interaction about this here, but I hope I have laid down an invitation that will encourage passionate, yet gracious responses.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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