{"id":5801,"date":"2012-11-01T15:02:37","date_gmt":"2012-11-01T22:02:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/breyeschow\/?p=5801"},"modified":"2012-11-04T16:47:02","modified_gmt":"2012-11-04T23:47:02","slug":"do-not-hate-mitt-romney","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/breyeschow\/2012\/11\/01\/do-not-hate-mitt-romney\/","title":{"rendered":"Sorry, But I Don&#8217;t Hate Mitt Romney"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><figure id=\"attachment_5839\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5839\" style=\"width: 240px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5839\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">flickr: mafleen<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/p><p>This past weekend, I had the privilege of spending 36 hours in Ohio.\u00a0Apparently\u00a0they are getting a good deal of presidential\u00a0election\u00a0attention. In fact, I came \u201cthis\u201d close to\u00a0being at a joint Paul Ryan Rally and Pumpkin Chucking event.<\/p>\n<p>Good times in Ohio. I am sure the election season can\u2019t be over soon enough for my Ohio friends.<\/p>\n<p>While I was there I had a good talk with a friend about what seems to be a genuine HATRED of President Obama. I realize that during election season there is always some level of mud-slinging and personal attacks, but the tone this year feels different than just trying to sway voters. This year it feels like the disdain and hate of Barack Obama is clogging up whatever\u00a0free-flow\u00a0of public debate that was left.\u00a0I almost don\u2019t care about why the hate seems to be so strong\u00a0and I am not so naive to think we can all \u201cjust get along,\u201d but I do think this tone has to be\u00a0challenged\u00a0and we must all refrain from stoking the fires of hate.<\/p>\n<p>This past week, with my \u201cPeople really HATE Barack Obama\u201d\u00a0antenna\u00a0up, I clicked on an\u00a0article, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.salon.com\/2012\/10\/28\/fear_and_loathing_in_campaign_2012\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Fear and loathing in campaign 2012:\u00a0<\/em><em>As patriarchal, Christian dominance fades demographically, its backlash politics have only become more vicious<\/em><\/a> by\u00a0Arthur Goldwag, author of\u00a0<a id=\"static_txt_preview\" href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0307390675\/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0307390675&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=brureychoblo-20\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Cults, Conspiracies, and Secret Societies<\/em>.<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\">\u2026the kind of hatred that I\u2019m talking about goes way beyond ordinary politics and deep into the realm of abnormal psychology. In its full-blown manifestations, it is akin to what an ophidiophobe feels at the sight of a snake: visceral and existential; categorical and absolute. It turns on the gut certainty that your adversaries aren\u2019t looking just to raise your taxes but to destroy your whole way of life: that they are not only wrongheaded, but preternaturally evil. Comparatively few people experience these feelings on a conscious level, but they lie latent in many more of us than we might suspect.<\/p>\n<p>Now I have been pretty clear that I am not a Romney Supporter. I would say that I am\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/breyeschow\/2012\/06\/27\/obama-romney-and-a-conservative-evangelical-counter-cult-expert\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">an Obama supporter<\/a>, with a soft spot for <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jillstein.org\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Stein<\/a>. And while I vehemently disagree with what Romney stands for on\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.mittromney.com\/issues\/values\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">marriage equality<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.mittromney.com\/issues\/immigration\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">immigration<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mittromney.com\/issues\/spending\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">government programs<\/a>, etc. and think his election would be horrible for the United States in so many ways, I can honestly say that I do not hate him. In fact,\u00a0I am one of those people that does not hate anyone. Be it political, professional, or personal, hate is a waste of my breath, a waste of my energy and a dishonor to God.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I don\u2019t hate the girl who dumped me in high school.<\/li>\n<li>I don\u2019t hate the colleague who I think is incompetent.<\/li>\n<li>I don\u2019t hate George W. Bush, who I\u00a0believe a horrendous President.<\/li>\n<li>I don\u2019t hate the person who beat me as a child.<\/li>\n<li>I don\u2019t hate the man who shot and killed my brother-in-law.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Disappointed in, angry with, livid towards, offended by, yes, but hateful towards another?<\/p>\n<p>Never.<\/p>\n<p>Hate is a powerful driving force and when repeatedly called upon, it strips us all of our humanity. As a parent, I do not forbid saying the word, but its use never goes unchallenged by a conversation with my children about what they are feeling.\u00a0Call it hippie-talk, \u201cpolitically\u00a0correct\u201d or whatever, but I\u00a0believe\u00a0that actions driven by hatred have allowed us to one-dimensionalize one another and our apathy towards it is tearing our culture and our country apart.<\/p>\n<p>Hate in personal or\u00a0professional situations has its own set of problems, but in politics hate renders us unable to separate the human being from the\u00a0politician. One can hate and fight\u00a0against\u00a0what someone does or believes, but to hate the human being\u00a0behind\u00a0those things is a dangerous place to be for us a individuals or as a country.\u00a0When\u00a0hate\u00a0invades\u00a0our\u00a0politics we begin to create legislation based upon\u00a0assumptions\u00a0and understandings that are not driven on a deep understanding of complex issues, but upon how we want to\u00a0culturally and institutionally hold captive the other.<\/p>\n<p>I\u00a0understand\u00a0that at this point, folks who are going to vote\u00a0against\u00a0Barack Obama are not going to change their minds. All I am hoping for is that, in the pursuit of the common good, our decisions on election day\u00a0and beyond are made based on disagreement about the issues and not hatred of the individual. For when hate is the lens through which we view the world and form our policies, a cycle of reciprocated hatred by those who are targeted will undoubtedly be the outcome.<\/p>\n<p>When we hate we all lose, no matter who gets elected.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>To receive all of my posts via email please subscribe: <\/strong><\/em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/feeds.feedburner.com\/reyes-chow\/blog\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">LOCAL<\/a><\/strong><em><strong> and <\/strong><\/em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/feeds.feedburner.com\/BruceReyes-Chow\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">GLOBAL<\/a><\/strong><em><strong>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This past weekend, I had the privilege of spending 36 hours in Ohio.\u00a0Apparently\u00a0they are getting a good deal of presidential\u00a0election\u00a0attention. 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I am sure the election season can\u2019t be over soon enough for my Ohio [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":110,"featured_media":5839,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[244,17,814],"tags":[17106,16545,17481,17482,17361,17480,16735,17108],"class_list":["post-5801","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-culture-politics","category-faith-religion","category-family-community","tag-2012-presidential-election","tag-barack-obama","tag-hate","tag-hatred","tag-jill-stein","tag-mitt","tag-mitt-romney","tag-president-barack-obama"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Sorry, But I Don&#039;t Hate Mitt Romney<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"This past weekend, I had the privilege of spending 36 hours in Ohio.\u00a0Apparently\u00a0they are getting a good deal of presidential\u00a0election\u00a0attention. 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