{"id":8839,"date":"2015-07-01T08:29:15","date_gmt":"2015-07-01T13:29:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/bristolpalin\/?p=8839"},"modified":"2015-07-01T08:31:48","modified_gmt":"2015-07-01T13:31:48","slug":"what-to-do-when-the-world-is-staring-at-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/bristolpalin\/2015\/07\/what-to-do-when-the-world-is-staring-at-you\/","title":{"rendered":"What To Do When the World Is Staring At You"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8846\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/156\/2015\/07\/Screen-Shot-2015-07-01-at-8.30.14-AM-e1435757464913.png\" alt=\"Screen Shot 2015-07-01 at 8.30.14 AM\" width=\"600\" height=\"507\"><\/p>\n<p>I love <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/parenting\/the-choice-i-had-to-make-when-a-lady-stared-at-us-121363609951.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">this mom<\/a>!\u00a0 While out to dinner with her family, including her daughter with Down Syndrome, a woman at the table next to them could not stop staring at her daughter.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>She writes:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u2026I realized I have a choice.<\/p>\n<p>I can be the mom who confronts everyone who looks at my daughter(s) the wrong way and give them a piece of my mind, or I can be the mom so caught up in the presence of our family and friends that I don\u2019t even notice those staring eyes.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Our reaction to others actions are much more important than whatever it is people are doing. \u00a0Many of you \u2014 for whatever reason \u2014 have had to face similar scrutiny.<\/p>\n<p>We have had lots of people staring at my family my whole life.\u00a0 I am so thankful that instead of letting their stares distract us, we have carried on and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/bristolpalin\/2015\/05\/pure-happiness\/#more-8534\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">focused on the joys<\/a> of just being together!<strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>(Mostly!) \u00a0This mom\u2019s post is a great reminder.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Read more on the\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/Family.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><strong><em>Patheos Faith and Family Channel<\/em><\/strong><\/a><strong><em>, fan me on\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/pages\/Bristol-Palin\/109696302423164\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" 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