{"id":39575,"date":"2013-09-12T09:30:52","date_gmt":"2013-09-12T15:30:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/christandpopculture\/?p=39575"},"modified":"2013-09-11T20:35:48","modified_gmt":"2013-09-12T02:35:48","slug":"elsewhere-the-rare-good-dating-article-spotted-in-the-wild","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/christandpopculture\/2013\/09\/elsewhere-the-rare-good-dating-article-spotted-in-the-wild\/","title":{"rendered":"ELSEWHERE: The Rare &#8220;Good Dating Article&#8221; Spotted In the Wild"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>Grow up in the church and you\u2019re going to hear or read some silly things about dating and relationships. Or you may hear some good things said in a silly way. Or you may hear something good repeated so often that it\u2019s taken to a silly extreme. Well, this guy, Paul Maxwell, <a href=\"http:\/\/thegospelcoalition.org\/blogs\/tgc\/2013\/09\/11\/what-does-intentional-mean-in-dating\/?repeat=w3tc\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">said a sane thing about dating and \u2018intentionality\u2019<\/a>\u00a0over at The Gospel Coalition. It\u2019s worth a look.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Grow up in the church and you\u2019re going to hear or read some silly things about dating and relationships. Or you may hear some good things said in a silly way. Or you may hear something good repeated so often that it\u2019s taken to a silly extreme. 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