{"id":538,"date":"2013-11-07T20:07:14","date_gmt":"2013-11-08T01:07:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/crywoof\/?p=538"},"modified":"2013-11-07T20:07:15","modified_gmt":"2013-11-08T01:07:15","slug":"love-sex-and-other-inequalities","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/crywoof\/2013\/11\/love-sex-and-other-inequalities\/","title":{"rendered":"Love, Sex, and other Inequalities"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/thecrescat\/2013\/11\/expressing-love-beyond-sex-and-the-single-life.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">Katrina Fernandez, aka The Crescat, has knocked it out of the park with a post on love, sex, and the difference between them.<\/a>  According to her, a lot of the people she runs into assume that if you\u2019re not having sex with them you don\u2019t love them; and if you\u2019re having sex with them, you love them, and they love you.  This strikes me as bizarre, but then, it strikes Katrina as bizarre, too:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The implication here is that single people practicing chastity are not experiencing love. Also, it implies the only way two people can express love for each other is through sex. I would ask them, in turn, how they think married people show their spouses love outside the bedroom.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>There\u2019s a lot more where that came from; you need to go look.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Katrina Fernandez, aka The Crescat, has knocked it out of the park with a post on love, sex, and the difference between them. 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