{"id":843,"date":"2013-12-12T12:43:08","date_gmt":"2013-12-12T17:43:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/crywoof\/?p=843"},"modified":"2013-12-09T19:43:57","modified_gmt":"2013-12-10T00:43:57","slug":"evangelii-gaudium-suffering-and-hope","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/crywoof\/2013\/12\/evangelii-gaudium-suffering-and-hope\/","title":{"rendered":"Evangelii Gaudium: Suffering and Hope"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

\"Contemplating<\/a> Pain and suffering are difficult by definition. Recently Calah Alexander took issue with people who tell her, \u201cGod will never give you anything you can\u2019t handle<\/a>,\u201d because people are often overwhelmed by situations they simply do not have the resources to cope with. Telling such a person that \u201cGod will never give you anything you can\u2019t handle\u201d can seem like a cruel joke: if only you were more in tune with God, it seems to say, you\u2019d be coping with this.<\/p>\n

I think there are other ways to understand that particular aphorism<\/a>, but with or without it, the problem remains. What do you with a hopeless situation? What do you say to someone in a hopeless situation? <\/p>\n

Pope Francis points the way in paragraph 6 of Evangelii Gaudium<\/a><\/em>: <\/p>\n

I understand the grief of people who have to endure great suffering, yet slowly but surely we all have to let the joy of faith slowly revive as a quiet yet firm trust, even amid the greatest distress: \u201cMy soul is bereft of peace; I have forgotten what happiness is\u2026 But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope: the steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning. Great is your faithfulness\u2026 It is good that one should wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord\u201d (Lam 3:17, 21-23, 26).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

God is faithful; His love lasts; this present pain will not. Even if I am stricken unto death, God waits on the other side\u2026and if I keep Jesus at my side, well, at least He knows the way.<\/p>\n

Am I compassionate enough to deliver this message to someone in great distress in a way that\u2019s helpful to them? I doubt it; if I tried, I think I\u2019d probably just turn out to be one of the annoying folks Calah took issue with. But in my own trials (trivial though they are) I find it helps me to remember it.<\/p>\n

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