{"id":18575,"date":"2015-03-10T23:35:01","date_gmt":"2015-03-11T05:35:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/danpeterson\/?p=18575"},"modified":"2015-03-10T23:35:33","modified_gmt":"2015-03-11T05:35:33","slug":"is-loneliness-the-human-reality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/danpeterson\/2015\/03\/is-loneliness-the-human-reality.html","title":{"rendered":"Is loneliness the human reality?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_18576\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18576\" style=\"width: 320px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/186\/2015\/03\/320px-Blake_jacobsladder.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-18576\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/186\/2015\/03\/320px-Blake_jacobsladder.jpg\" alt=\"William Blake's depiction of Jacob's Ladder\" width=\"320\" height=\"407\"><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-18576\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u201cJacob\u2019s Dream,\u201d by William Blake<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe\u2019re born alone, we live alone, we die alone. \u00a0Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we\u2019re not alone.\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Orson Welles<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I believe Orson Welles to have been profoundly wrong in what he said above. \u00a0The truth is so much better.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a passage from the late Dr. Elisabeth K\u00fcbler-Ross, the famous expert <em>On Death and Dying<\/em>. \u00a0She\u2019s listing three reasons why it\u2019s impossible for anybody to die alone:<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_18577\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18577\" style=\"width: 350px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/186\/2015\/03\/celestial_idahofalls.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-18577\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/186\/2015\/03\/celestial_idahofalls.jpg\" alt=\"In the Idaho Falls Temple\" width=\"350\" height=\"458\"><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-18577\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The Celestial Room of the Idaho Falls Temple.<br>Note the reunions depicted in the mural on the wall.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u201cThe second reason why we cannot die alone is that we will always be met by those who preceded us in death and whom we have loved. This could be a child we lost, perhaps decades earlier, or a grandmother, a father, a mother or another person who has been significant in our lives.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I believe Dr. K\u00fcbler-Ross to be as right as Orson Welles was wrong.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u201cWe\u2019re born alone, we live alone, we die alone. \u00a0Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we\u2019re not alone.\u201d Orson Welles \u00a0 I believe Orson Welles to have been profoundly wrong in what he said above. \u00a0The truth is so much better. \u00a0 Here\u2019s a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1019,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18575","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Is loneliness the human reality?<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"&nbsp; 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