Scott Anderson<\/a> (the president and CEO of Zion\u2019s Bank, whom I was once able to take on a tour of Israel, with his wife), of the unbelievably many charitable organizations and activities with which Elder Gay has been involved. \u00a0And, when I say \u201cinvolved,\u201d I don\u2019t mean simply by means of extraordinarily\u00a0generous financial donations. \u00a0I mean \u201chands on,\u201d both in terms of organizational involvement and, surprisingly often, in terms of wielding hammer and tools himself.<\/p>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n
It was an inspiring evening, but also a profoundly humbling one. \u00a0As we drove home afterward, I wondered whether I\u2019ve\u00a0ever done anything at all<\/em> with my life and resources.<\/p>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n
I had already been deeply, deeply impressed by Elder and Sister Gay. \u00a0I came away awestruck. \u00a0And I\u2019m not exaggerating.<\/p>\n
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The General Authorities take a lot of flack from harsh critics of the Church. \u00a0They\u2019re supposedly callous, uncaring, out of touch, empty suits, mere corporate functionaries. \u00a0Elder Robert Gay is a spectacular, living refutation of such calumnies.<\/p>\n
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It\u2019s been a surprise and a privilege to have come to know him and his wife.<\/p>\n
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I wish that all members of the Church had been able to be there that night.<\/p>\n
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