{"id":70780,"date":"2019-02-24T09:32:01","date_gmt":"2019-02-24T16:32:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/danpeterson\/?p=70780"},"modified":"2019-02-24T09:38:44","modified_gmt":"2019-02-24T16:38:44","slug":"at-the-end-of-a-good-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/danpeterson\/2019\/02\/at-the-end-of-a-good-life.html","title":{"rendered":"At the end of a good life"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_38720\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-38720\" style=\"width: 596px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/186\/2016\/12\/Beautiful_misty_view_of_Pillar_Rocks_of_Kodaikanal_Tamil_Nadu_India.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-38720\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/186\/2016\/12\/Beautiful_misty_view_of_Pillar_Rocks_of_Kodaikanal_Tamil_Nadu_India.jpg\" alt=\"Clouds and cliff\" width=\"596\" height=\"375\"><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-38720\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u201cLet not your heart be troubled.\u201d \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0(Wikimedia Commons public domain)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday (Saturday) my wife and I attended the funeral of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.legacy.com\/obituaries\/deseretnews\/obituary.aspx?n=legene-bay-hutchings&amp;pid=191607006\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">a member of our congregation<\/a>\u00a0whom we\u2019ve known for a number of years. \u00a0He and his (second) wife even came with us, a few summers ago, on a tour of Israel. \u00a0He died on St. Valentine\u2019s Day, and he would have celebrated his ninety-first birthday today (Sunday). \u00a0Although inevitably aging, he was in quite good health until just a few days before his passing. \u00a0Enviable, that.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Music was a very important part of his life \u2014 he sometimes played the organ in our sacrament meetings \u2014 and, before the service began, a recording of his own piano performance of various hymns and other pieces sounded in the chapel. \u00a0So the music for the funeral was, predictably, very nice, including vocal renditions of\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=b4iMiyUzTFw\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">\u201cWeeping Mary\u201d<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=FK5VulNn3so\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">\u201cThe Prayer\u201d.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The link above takes you to a magnificent rendition of \u201cThe Prayer,\u201d but, alas, the video is slightly out of sync with the sound. \u00a0Here, though, \u00a0are the lyrics:<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<div><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><i>[Celine Dion:]<\/i><\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">I pray you\u2019ll be our eyes<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">And watch us where we go<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">And help us to be wise<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">In times when we don\u2019t know<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Let this be our prayer<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">When we lose our way<\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\">Lead us to a place<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Guide us with your grace<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">To a place where we\u2019ll be safe<\/span>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><i>[Andrea Bocelli (Celine Dion):]<\/i><\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">La luce che tu hai<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">(I pray we\u2019ll find your light)<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Nel cuore rester\u00e0<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">(And hold it in our hearts)<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">A ricordarci che<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">(When stars go out each night)<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Eterna stella sei<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">(Whoa)<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Nella mia preghiera<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">(Let this be our prayer)<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Quanta fede c\u2019\u00e8<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">(When shadows fill our day)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\">Lead us to a place<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">(Guide us with your grace)<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\"><i>[Both:]<\/i><\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Give us faith so we\u2019ll be safe<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\">Sogniamo un mondo senza pi\u00f9 violenza<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Un mondo di giustizia e di speranza<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Ognuno dia la mano al suo vicino<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Simbolo di pace, di fraternit\u00e0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><i>[Andrea Bocelli (Celine Dion):]<\/i><\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">La forza che ci d\u00e0<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">(We ask that life be kind)<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">\u00c8 il desiderio che<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">(And watch us from above)<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Ognuno trovi amor<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">(We hope each soul will find)<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Intorno e dentro s\u00e9<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">(Another soul to love)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><i>[Both:]<\/i><\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Let this be our prayer<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\"><i>[Celine Dion:]<\/i><\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Let this be our prayer<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\"><i>[Andrea Bocelli:]<\/i><\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Just like every child<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\"><i>[Celine Dion:]<\/i><\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Just like every child<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><i>[Both:]<\/i><\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Need to find a place<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Guide us with your grace<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Give us faith so we\u2019ll be safe<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\">\u00c8 la fede che<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Hai acceso in noi<\/span><br>\n<span style=\"color: #003300;\">Sento che ci salvera<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I love to hear about lives that have been well-lived, and this one was definitely among those. \u00a0Even when we\u2019ve known people for a long time, we still learn much about them, about their earlier lives and about how they were seen through the eyes of their families, at their funerals. \u00a0And, in my judgment, persons are the most irreplaceably valuable and interesting constituents of the universe.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 Yesterday (Saturday) my wife and I attended the funeral of a member of our congregation\u00a0whom we\u2019ve known for a number of years. \u00a0He and his (second) wife even came with us, a few summers ago, on a tour of Israel. \u00a0He died on St. 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