{"id":75558,"date":"2019-06-29T16:34:11","date_gmt":"2019-06-29T22:34:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/danpeterson\/?p=75558"},"modified":"2019-06-29T16:34:11","modified_gmt":"2019-06-29T22:34:11","slug":"a-thought-on-forgiveness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/danpeterson\/2019\/06\/a-thought-on-forgiveness.html","title":{"rendered":"A thought on forgiveness"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17708\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17708\" style=\"width: 596px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/186\/2015\/02\/1024px-Nassau_Hall_Princeton.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-17708\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/186\/2015\/02\/1024px-Nassau_Hall_Princeton.jpg\" alt=\"Princeton's Nassau Hall\" width=\"596\" height=\"398\"><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17708\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Nassau Hall, the oldest building at Princeton University and, now, its administration building. Across the street, by the way, behind the photographer, is a little hole-in-the-wall place that, so far as I\u2019ve been able to determine, makes the finest Philly cheesesteak sandwiches in the universe.<br>(Wikimedia Commons public domain photograph)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been reading a relatively short book by the distinguished British conservative philosopher Sir Roger Scruton, whom I greatly admire, entitled <em>On Human Nature<\/em> (Princeton and Oxford: Princeton University Press, 2017). \u00a0The book is the somewhat revised result of his having delivered three Charles E. Test memorial lectures at Princeton University under the auspices of the James Madison Program there in the fall of 2013. \u00a0(The director of the Madison Program is the distinguished American conservative philosopher and legal theorist Robert P. George, whom I also greatly admire and who, although a Catholic, has become a great friend to Brigham Young University and the <a href='https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/library\/mormonism' target='_blank'>Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I think that I\u2019ll post a few gems from Sir Roger\u2019s book, and that I\u2019ll start with the insightful passage immediately below. \u00a0Its focus is, strictly speaking, on interpersonal relationships among earthly mortals such as ourselves, but I think it also very relevant to questions of salvation by grace, \u201cworks righteousness,\u201d and divine forgiveness:<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Forgiveness cannot be offered arbitrarily and to all comers \u2014 so offered it becomes a kind of indifference, a refusal to recognize the distinction between right and wrong. \u00a0Forgiveness is only sincerely offered by a person who is aware of having been wronged, to another who is aware of having committed a wrong. \u00a0If the person who has injured you makes no effort to obtain forgiveness and merely laughs at your first moves toward offering it, the impulse to forgive is frozen. \u00a0If, however, the person apologizes, and if the contrition is proportionate to the offense, a process begins that might have forgiveness as its outcome. \u00a0The idea of proportionality is important. \u00a0The person who runs over your child and who then says \u201cFrightfully sorry,\u201d before driving off has not earned your forgiveness. \u00a0People who take on the full burden of contrition in a case like this must not only try to make amends but also show, through their distress, a full consciousness of the extent to which they have wronged the other, so that their restoration as members of the community must depend on the other\u2019s goodwill. \u00a0(p. 85)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 I\u2019ve been reading a relatively short book by the distinguished British conservative philosopher Sir Roger Scruton, whom I greatly admire, entitled On Human Nature (Princeton and Oxford: Princeton University Press, 2017). \u00a0The book is the somewhat revised result of his having delivered three Charles E. 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