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***<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n If we Catholics and like-minded Protestants who believe in children have lots of kids, then demographics is destiny and things can<\/i> change. God can bring about change, no matter how bleak it gets. We gotta share the faith (and the message of pro-life). And that is exactly what I devote all my working time to doing . . .<\/span> I don\u2019t deny that the society is anti-child (I\u2019ve been nothing that for 30 years); only that it will be indefinitely. I follow one of the dicta of Servant of God, Fr. John A. Hardon: \u201cthe worst centuries are invariably followed by the best ones.\u201d Since the 20th century was the worst ever, in God\u2019s providence the 21st will be, eventually, one of the great ones, of revival. The century\u2019s still young: we\u2019re only 11 years + 3 months into it. Still got almost 89% of it to go.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n If you look at everything apart from God\u2019s providence and His supernatural power, I agree, there would be little hope on a human level. But blessedly, we serve and worship a God Who brings about revival. He did it with the ancient Jews; He can even with us, too. It requires faith to believe and see this.<\/span><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n<\/div>\n I contend that the society can eventually be more<\/b> so<\/i> (and pro-life trends support that) by the pro-child folks having lots of children and raising them as good traditional Catholics or Protestants, and by the grace of God, Who ultimately grants whether revivals and societal transformation are to occur or not.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>But we can play our part by our prayers, observance of Catholic morality, and having children, or promoting the infinite value of more children, if we can\u2019t produce them ourselves. God always works through His people as vessels.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Positive trends are a different thing from \u201cwinning.\u201d They do not reflect so much the current climate as the possible<\/i> or likely<\/i> climate in the years to come. We have a long, long <\/i>way to go, but there is hope. There always is with God. I don\u2019t follow a\u00a0gloom-and-doom pessimistic scenario because I believe in a God Who can do anything, and has<\/i> done so in the past. It\u2019s not just a pipe-dream because we can point to past occurrences where there was extraordinary revival and change.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n I suspect that we should find several occasions when Christendom was thus to all appearance hollowed out from within by doubt and indifference, so that only the old Christian shell stood as the pagan shell had stood so long. But the difference is that in every such case, the sons were fanatical for the faith where the fathers had been slack about it. This is obvious in the case of the transition from the Renaissance to the Counter-Reformation. It is obvious in the case of a transition from the eighteenth century to the many Catholic revivals of our own time . . . Just as some might have thought the Church simply a part of the Roman Empire, so others later might have thought the Church only a part of the Dark Ages. The Dark Ages ended as the Empire had ended; and the Church should have departed with them, if she had been also one of the shades of night.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span>(<\/span>The Everlasting Man<\/i>, Garden City, New York: Doubleday Image, 1925, 250-252)<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n At least five times, . . . with the Arian and the Albigensian, with the Humanist sceptic, after Voltaire and after Darwin, the Faith has to all appearance gone to the dogs. In each of these five cases it was the dog that died.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span>(<\/span>Ibid<\/i>., 254)<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n It didn\u2019t take a thousand years in any of these cases. Major change came about within a century\u2019s time. That is the record. I appeal to faith, God\u2019s providence, and actual history.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span> We can massively change our society fairly quickly by having lots of kids. Just look at what is happening in Europe. The Muslims increasingly take over simply by having lots of kids and continuing on in their faith. Catholics can do that, too: take a cue from the Muslims and \u201cdemographics is destiny.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n We could<\/i>. That\u2019s what I\u2019m saying. I am not convinced that it won\u2019t <\/i>happen, because far stranger things already<\/i> have. It could be that some horror like a nuclear war or complete economic collapse unlike anything ever seen will bring about the revival. We can do it the easy way (have lots of kids and disciple them) or the hard way (waking up after an existential catastrophe: like what was usually required with the ancient Hebrews).<\/span><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n<\/div>\n ***<\/p>\n<\/div>\n It would be a huge shift if Catholics would learn to not vote for childkilling advocates (usually Democrat candidates, but not always). It would seem to be elementary, yet every election year we go through this. <\/span>I\u2019ve yet to meet a Democrat in thirty years of discussions about pro-life, give a rational, sensible reason for why any Christian should vote for people who want to keep childkilling and child torture legal.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Protestant e<\/span><\/span>vangelical voters are far smarter and more morally consistent. If Catholics alone understood this we wouldn\u2019t have had a Democrat President since LBJ (unless the party was forced by polls to change its childkilling platform, which would have been quite possible if they lost the Presidency repeatedly).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n ***\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n Catholics are not required to have huge families. I am saying that a pro-child outlook means that the average number of children should be way way<\/i> more than 1.7 or whatever miserable figure it is now. Lots of variables are involved in individual cases. On the whole, Catholics ought to be having lots more children than they have been . . .<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n ***\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n The beauty of discipling through childrearing is that it is a golden opportunity to profoundly mold and shape a Christian life by the love and attention that goes into that. We can and should also go out and evangelize and share the faith, and that will bear fruit (I do it as a profession), but it\u2019s not possible to have the personal impact that a parent has with their children.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span>I\u2019ve often pondered how I could show love in tangible ways in my outreach efforts. All I can really do is serve by writing, as a teacher, and try to extend Christian love on a personal level, as opportunity arises. But it\u2019s a lot different with words on a screen, compared to real-life personal interaction.<\/span><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n<\/div>\n There is supposed to be a sufficiently serious reason to avoid having more children (financial, health, emotional, etc.). Deliberately deciding to have no children as a Catholic married couple (minus serious considerations) is contrary to what the Church teaches.<\/span><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Humanae Vitae<\/i> states this, and I believe everything that the Church teaches. But the problem, of course, is that people are very quick to conclude that the reasons to not conceive outweigh the ones in favor. The societal tendency is anti-child and an overwhelming contraceptive mentality that has tragically led to abortion, that has obviously infected Catholics to a large extent, since our birth rates are scarcely any higher than the general public.<\/span> As for affording \u201clarge families,\u201d we are also far too quick to conclude that it is too difficult to do so. The problem often is that we value excessive materialism more than children, and because of that think that children are too big of a financial burden. Sometimes this is indeed true, but often not.<\/span><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Our family is a case-in-point. We have four children, and my wife homeschools. I\u2019m bringing in the only income, yet we manage to make it with a yearly income so low, no one would believe it if I said how much it was. We\u2019re paying our bills (including a mortgage), have good credit, rarely use credit cards, and take a decent vacation every year (camping to save motel costs, cheap food, free things to do, etc.). It can<\/em> be done.<\/span> That\u2019s not to say that there is not sacrifice. There certainly is, but it comes down to what is most valued: family or material possessions and riches that are extraordinary by world and historical standards.<\/span> I\u2019m not trying to condemn anyone. I\u2019m not being legalistic or callous to reality. I\u2019m simply trying to state what the Church teaches, and to render a Catholic opinion as to why birthrates are alarmingly low. If we don\u2019t analyze this and try to do something to change it, then things will only get worse. Societies that stop having children inevitably decay and die out.<\/span><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n<\/div>\n ***<\/span><\/p>\n That\u2019s simply not true, and most of human history shows that it is not, even before we get to the Bible and what it says about the blessing of children: even a \u201cquiver full\u201d (Psalm 127:3-5). The idol of materialism has replaced the love of children on a very wide scale. I can\u2019t determine if this is the case for particular people; that is God\u2019s place to judge their motivations and hearts, not mine, but I can say in a general sociological sense that in a culture that averages 1.7 children per couple, it is largely due to an anti-child, contraceptive mentality and the idolatry of luxury and excessive materialism. I don\u2019t think that\u2019s even arguable.<\/span><\/p>\n ***<\/span><\/p>\n This has all basically come about since 1960 and the Introduction of the Pill, followed by the sexual revolution and the outrage of legal abortion and 50 million legally murdered children: just a little over 50 years. We\u2019re certainly well worthy of being judged and annihilated, based on abortion alone. If God wiped us out tomorrow, no one would have the slightest basis to complain about it. It would be perfectly just: much more<\/i> than just for God to do so. The fact that we have not<\/i> yet been wiped off the face of the earth for our unspeakable sins is testament to the extraordinary mercy and lovingkindness of God. I think the fact of non-judgment is itself an indication that God has in store for us a huge supernatural revival, so we can get back to some remote semblance of a life-affirming, children-loving Christian culture again.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n 1) as if it is any of their business in the first <\/i>place, <\/span> and <\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n 2) as if it is consistent<\/i> with the supposed rhetoric of everyone being free to do as they please.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n I think it\u2019s obvious that large families threaten some people precisely because it is in effect a rebuke to their own \u201canti-child\u201d prejudice and inclinations. They don\u2019t want children, and their antipathy runs so deep that they appear to not want anyone<\/i> to have a large family, lest such an indescribable, unspeakable horror should catch on in society . . .<\/span> Note what this idiotic, immoral outlook entails: killing children in their mother\u2019s womb is well and good, to be encouraged and touted as a \u201cright\u201d \u2014 but daring and being silly enough to have lots of children<\/i>!!!! My heavens, that<\/i> is the most outrageous thing imaginable and good radical feminists must oppose and mock it at every turn.<\/span><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Lots of children are evil; whereas fewer being conceived, and lots being eliminated through torture and murder is a great thing that ought to be enshrined with the sanction of law, complete with highfalutin\u2019 language about \u201crights\u201d (of one person to the exclusion of the other), and the supposed callous indifference and oppression of those cruel souls who oppose childkilling, and so forth . . .\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Related Reading<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n Dialogue w Several Non-Catholics on Contraception<\/a>\u00a0[1996 and 1998]<\/p>\n Contraception: Early Church Teaching<\/a>\u00a0(William Klimon) [1998]<\/p>\n Dialogue: Contraception & Natural Family Planning (NFP)<\/a>\u00a0[5-16-06]<\/p>\n Contraception and Biblical Teaching (Fer or Agin)?<\/a>\u00a0[2007]<\/p>\n Humanae Vitae<\/em>: (1968): Infallible Teaching\u00a0Against Contraception<\/a>\u00a0[12-31-07]<\/p>\n Humanae Vitae:<\/em>\u00a0August 1968 & the \u201cProgressive\u201d Revolt<\/a>\u00a0(Cardinal James Francis Stafford) [7-29-08]<\/p>\n \u201cDivine Family Planning\u201d (Unlimited Children \/ Anti-NFP): Critique<\/a>\u00a0[9-20-08]<\/p>\n Bible on\u00a0the Blessing of [Many] Children<\/a>\u00a0[3-9-09]<\/p>\n Protestants, Contraception, the Pill, & NFP\u00a0<\/a>[8-12-11]<\/p>\n Natural Family Planning (NFP) &\u00a0\u201cContraceptive Intent\u201d<\/a>\u00a0[8-28-13]<\/p>\n Orthodoxy & Contraception: Continuity or Compromise?<\/a>\u00a0[2015]<\/p>\n Natural Family Planning: Anti-Sex & Anti-Pleasure?<\/a>\u00a0[1-23-17]<\/p>\n Unlimited Children for Catholics? Reply to a Slanderer<\/a>\u00a0[2-3-18]<\/p>\n Contraception and \u201cAnti-Procreation\u201d vs. Scripture<\/a>\u00a0[National Catholic Register<\/em>, 6-6-18]<\/p>\n Contraception, Natural Law, & the Analogy to Nutrition<\/a>\u00a0[2-21-19]<\/p>\n