{"id":3920,"date":"2018-05-29T07:55:58","date_gmt":"2018-05-29T13:55:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/davidrupert\/?p=3920"},"modified":"2018-05-29T09:26:08","modified_gmt":"2018-05-29T15:26:08","slug":"when-westboro-comes-to-town-what-should-we-hate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/davidrupert\/when-westboro-comes-to-town-what-should-we-hate\/","title":{"rendered":"When Westboro Comes to Town {What Should We Hate?}"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>Westboro \u201cBaptist\u201d \u201cChurch\u201d held a demonstration outside my church yesterday.<\/p>\n<p>In the mountains for the long weekend, I missed it.<\/p>\n<p>Our church wasn\u2019t the only one. The Phelps family and their \u201cchurch\u201d waved their signs at a Conservative Baptist Church, a Religious Science Church, and mine, a non-denominational church. It was an interesting choice of targets.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ve demonstrated at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/2011\/10\/12\/9-worst-funeral-protests-_n_1005958.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">more than 400 funerals<\/a> of warriors killed in action, paining grieving families, converting no one. They believe deaths in combat are signs of God\u2019s wrath against this country for accepting homosexual behavior.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ve waved their signs at the gravesides of fallen law enforcement, shown up at school graduations, and sports events. They have no shame, no restraints.<\/p>\n<p>A local weekly <a href=\"http:\/\/www.westword.com\/news\/westboro-baptist-church-colorado-hate-fest-2018-10337547\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">publicized<\/a> their schedule and called it the \u201cColorado Hate Fest.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Why do they do it?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There is no love lost for the homosexual community and they have zeroed in on this activity. And they target churches and governments that \u201ccondone the activity.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Their website <a href=\"http:\/\/www.godhatesfags.com\/wbcinfo\/aboutwbc.html?COLLCC=3919072411&amp;\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">says this<\/a>,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cEven though the Arminian lies that \u2018God loves everyone\u2019 and \u2018Jesus died for everyone\u2019 are being taught from nearly every pulpit in this generation, this hasn\u2019t always been the case. If you are in a church that supposedly believes the Bible, and you are hearing these lies, then your church doesn\u2019t teach what the Bible teaches. If you care about your never-dying soul, you will carefully read every word of this website, along with the entire Bibl<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>They\u2019ve taken Calvinism to the extreme.<\/p>\n<p>For the unchurched, Westboro displays the worst in bigotry. And it\u2019s assumed they represent Christianity at large.<\/p>\n<p>For Christians, Westboro presents a twisted gospel. They aren\u2019t driven to encourage repentance through any sort of a loving God, a Savior converting the hard heart. Instead, they preach the wrath of the Almighty, contorted to scare the masses.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"clkYXVwtQoxvwZAihfl_fw\" class=\"gie-single decorated-link\" style=\"color: #a7a7a7; text-decoration: none; font-weight: normal !important; border: none; display: inline-block;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.gettyimages.com\/detail\/2691851\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Embed from Getty Images<\/a><script>window.gie=window.gie||function(c){(gie.q=gie.q||[]).push(c)};gie(function(){gie.widgets.load({id:'clkYXVwtQoxvwZAihfl_fw',sig:'8Qs_wgIkn-xiqwhg102QRkJl8OfJekymBr1CjxmkAb8=',w:'594px',h:'388px',items:'2691851',caption: true ,tld:'com',is360: false })});<\/script><script src=\"\/\/embed-cdn.gettyimages.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\" async><\/script><\/p>\n<p><strong>Focused Hate<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cHate the sin, love the sinner\u201d is a simplistic, and yet wholly Scriptural concept. Paul talks freely about the struggles he had in his own life, hating the pull, the desire, the temptation of sin.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m the same way. I hate the fleshly ways that I\u2019m torn, badly wanting to do right and yet falling to the wrong. I look back at those moments in my life when I chose something I shouldn\u2019t have, and I literally hate those moments, the failures in my walk. And so, does God.<\/p>\n<p>Hating the activities that others engage in is not the same as hating a person.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a fine line, isn\u2019t it? When someone lies to you, parsing out the activity from the person isn\u2019t easy.<\/p>\n<p>I had a man who cheated me out of $300 for a car that I sold him. It\u2019s a difficult split in my life to wag my finger at the theft and still love the man who did the deed.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why this concept of Christianity is such a big pill to swallow for so many.<\/p>\n<p>When Christ dined with sinners, he wasn\u2019t embracing the prostitution, the tax manipulation, the drinking that they did. He was loving the person, engaging them in grace with the hope that they would repent.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s true that some never call to repent, putting up with bad behavior and sin without skipping a beat. And that\u2019s not biblical. Justifying sin only perpetuates it. I know in my life the cycle this creates.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hypocrisy that the Phelps family and Westboro thinks they are calling out. I\u2019m not sure they are effective however with signs like \u201cThank God for Aids,\u201d \u201cFags burn in hell,\u201d \u201cGod Blew up the Troops,\u201d \u201cGod Hates America.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Their website address mirrors their most famous sign. \u201cGodHatesFags.com\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"nyd8Zo-ARsZIcMC_qnabsA\" class=\"gie-single decorated-link\" style=\"color: #a7a7a7; text-decoration: none; font-weight: normal !important; border: none; display: inline-block;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.gettyimages.com\/detail\/88270710\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Embed from Getty Images<\/a><script>window.gie=window.gie||function(c){(gie.q=gie.q||[]).push(c)};gie(function(){gie.widgets.load({id:'nyd8Zo-ARsZIcMC_qnabsA',sig:'DuRfEGXoaRkTDKVF90adO1w369G-faPq_btdW3WIU2Y=',w:'594px',h:'359px',items:'88270710',caption: true ,tld:'com',is360: false })});<\/script><script src=\"\/\/embed-cdn.gettyimages.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\" async><\/script><\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t blame Christians for Hate.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We all know the Westboro signs because they are symbolically waved at all of us every single day as Christians try to engage the culture.<\/p>\n<p>People think this \u201cchurch,\u201d which is really a large extended family, represents Christianity. But since we are a broad-brush people, we paint every person in a movement with the same belief. Since Westboro uses \u201cBaptist\u201d and \u201cChurch\u201d in their name, then \u201csurely they must represent Christians.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><em>You see, it\u2019s the world \u2013 and people like this \u2014 that has love and hate all messed up, not the church<\/em>.\u00a0 When the woman was ready to be stoned, Jesus by his persuasive logic of love caused the accusers to melt away.<\/p>\n<p>Out of compassion, out of love, he saved her life. But then he said, \u201cGo and sin no more.\u201d \u00a0He didn\u2019t hate her, but he still told her change her ways.\u00a0<em>His love changed the conversation, and so can ours<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This method works. When faced with such overwhelming love, acceptance, and forgiveness, I cannot continue in my sin. Like a father who never gives up on a son, God loves until my will is broken.<\/p>\n<p>When the Bible tells me to love, it\u2019s a matter of the heart and the soul. \u00a0It doesn\u2019t mean that I need to make excuses for behavior or overlook a fallen nature. I love their person, their being regardless of how they act. We love because by doing so it might help them into a right relationship with God.<\/p>\n<p>Phelps family put down your signs and open your Bibles.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For the unchurched, Westboro displays the worst in bigotry. And it\u2019s assumed they represent Christianity at large.<br \/>\nFor Christians, Westboro presents a twisted gospel. They aren&#8217;t driven to encourage repentance through any sort of a loving God, a Savior converting the hard heart. Instead, they preach the wrath of the Almighty, contorted to scare the masses. Is there hypocrisy in the church? You bet. 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