{"id":845,"date":"2013-05-20T05:02:15","date_gmt":"2013-05-20T11:02:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/davidrupert\/?p=845"},"modified":"2013-05-20T05:02:15","modified_gmt":"2013-05-20T11:02:15","slug":"burnout_or_burn_out_fade_away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/davidrupert\/burnout_or_burn_out_fade_away\/","title":{"rendered":"Is it better to burn out, or simply fade away?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><em>It was spectacular!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>In college, a bunch of us bored underclassmen went out to the vacant BLM land and collected all kinds of fallen timber, left over boards and trash into a single heap.<\/p>\n<p>Then, one of my brilliant classmates took a gallon of gasoline and doused the wood pile. An even smarter fellow, I think he\u2019s a firefighter now, threw a cigarette into the mass and with a whoosh it exploded, sending all of us scurrying.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/580\/2013\/05\/2419526768_eb970f0221.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-846 alignright\" alt=\"bonfire, big flame\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/580\/2013\/05\/2419526768_eb970f0221-225x300.jpg\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The flames burned for hours as we stood around, laughing and marveling at our feat. But before midnight, the fire was gone and there were just some smoldering coals. <em>The thrill was gone.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been behind some big ideas \u2014 only to see them flame out. The great vision was fantastic, and there was plenty of excitement. It\u2019s new. It\u2019s different.\u00a0 But I have found that I constantly stoke the coals and add new fuel, the fire will die.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve lost friends just because I didn\u2019t pay attention. I\u2019ve lost love relationships because I let the fire burn out. I lost drive in a job because there wasn\u2019t anything new to rev my engines.<\/p>\n<p>It can be that way with writing, or a hobby, school plans, or career goals. <em>There has to be a way to throw on another log, and then stand back in heat.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Neil Young famously<a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Hey_Hey,_My_My_(Into_the_Black)\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\"> sang<\/a>, \u201cit\u2019s better to burn out than to fade away.\u201d I\u2019m not sure I want to do either.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>What about you? What have you see seen fade away in your life?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>[box] What He Said: \u201cCome to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.\u201d (Matthew 11:28\u201330). [\/box]<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve lost friends just because I didn&#8217;t pay attention. I lost a marriage because I let the fire burn out. I lost drive in a job because there wasn&#8217;t anything new to rev my engines. <\/p>\n<p>It can be that way with writing, or a hobby, school plans, or career goals. There has to be a way to to throw on another log, and then stand back in heat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2375,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-845","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Is it better to burn out, or simply fade away?<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"How many big ideas have I seen burn out -- simply disappear to the wind?. Did they fade away on their own, or was it my own burnout? 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