{"id":1316,"date":"2011-01-25T11:35:44","date_gmt":"2011-01-25T16:35:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/community\/deaconsbench\/?p=1316"},"modified":"2016-09-30T17:47:53","modified_gmt":"2016-09-30T21:47:53","slug":"would-you-like-your-funeral-streamed-live","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/deaconsbench\/2011\/01\/would-you-like-your-funeral-streamed-live\/","title":{"rendered":"Would you like your funeral streamed live?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>Welcome to the brave new world of the YouTube funeral, where grieving friends and relatives no longer have to travel cross country to bid goodbye to the dearly departed.<\/p>\n<p>Now you can do it online.<\/p>\n<p>From <strong><a href=\"\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2011\/01\/25\/fashion\/25death.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">the New York Times<\/a><\/strong>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp.patheos.com\/community\/sites\/56\/2011\/01\/DEATH-popup.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1317\" src=\"https:\/\/wp.patheos.com\/community\/sites\/56\/2011\/01\/DEATH-popup-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\"><\/a>In an age of commemorating birthdays, weddings and anniversaries on <a title=\"More articles about Facebook.\" href=\"http:\/\/topics.nytimes.com\/top\/news\/business\/companies\/facebook_inc\/index.html?inline=nyt-org\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Facebook<\/a> and  <a title=\"More articles about Twitter.\" href=\"http:\/\/topics.nytimes.com\/top\/news\/business\/companies\/twitter\/index.html?inline=nyt-org\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Twitter<\/a>, it  was perhaps inevitable that live Web-streaming funerals  for friends and  loved ones would be next.<\/p>\n<p>It is no surprise that the deaths of celebrities, like Michael Jackson,  or honored political figures, like the United States diplomat <a title=\"More articles about Richard C. Holbrooke.\" href=\"http:\/\/topics.nytimes.com\/top\/reference\/timestopics\/people\/h\/richard_c_holbrooke\/index.html?inline=nyt-per\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Richard  Holbrooke<\/a>, are promoted  as international Web events. So, too, was  the memorial service for the six people killed Jan. 8 in Tucson, which  had thousands of viewers on the Web.<\/p>\n<p>But now the once-private funerals and memorials of less-noted citizens  are also going online.<\/p>\n<p>Several software companies have created easy-to-use programs to help  funeral homes cater to bereaved families. FuneralOne a one-stop shop for  online memorials that is based in St. Clair, Mich., has seen the number  of funeral homes offering Webcasts increase to 1,053 in 2010, from 126  in 2008 (it also sells digital tribute DVDs).<\/p>\n<p>During that same period, Event by Wire, a competitor in Half Moon Bay,  Calif., watched the number of funeral homes live-streaming services jump  to 300 from 80. And this month, the Service Corporation International  in Houston, which owns 2,000 funeral homes and cemeteries, including the   venerable Frank E. Campbell funeral chapel on the Upper East Side of  Manhattan, said it was conducting a pilot Webcasting program at 16 of  its funeral homes.<\/p>\n<p>Traveling to funerals was once an important family rite, but with  greater secularity and a mobile population increasingly disconnected  from original hometowns, watching a funeral online can seem better than  not going to a funeral at all. Social media, too, have redrawn the  communal barriers of what is acceptable when relating to parents,  siblings, friends and acquaintances.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe are in a YouTube society now,\u201d said H. Joseph Joachim IV, founder of  FuneralOne. \u201cPeople are living more than ever online, and this reflects  that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Some of the Web-streamed funerals reflect the large followings gathered  by individuals. On Jan. 11, more than 7,000 people watched the Santa  Ana, Calif., <strong><a title=\"Funeral of Debbie Friedman.\" href=\"http:\/\/www.ustream.tv\/recorded\/11956153\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">funeral of Debbie Friedman<\/a><\/strong>, an  iconic singer whose music combined Jewish text with folk rhythm. It was  seen on Ustream, a Web video service, with more than 20,000 viewing it  on-demand in the days that followed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe intended to watch a few minutes, but ended up watching almost the  whole thing,\u201d said Noa Kushner, a rabbi  in San Anselmo, Calif., and a  fan of Ms. Friedman\u2019s music, who watched the service with a friend at  his office. \u201cI was so moved.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong><a href=\"\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2011\/01\/25\/fashion\/25death.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">Read more<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Welcome to the brave new world of the YouTube funeral, where grieving friends and relatives no longer have to travel cross country to bid goodbye to the dearly departed. Now you can do it online. 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