{"id":23947,"date":"2013-06-14T16:12:52","date_gmt":"2013-06-14T20:12:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/deaconsbench\/?p=23947"},"modified":"2016-09-30T16:03:36","modified_gmt":"2016-09-30T20:03:36","slug":"view-from-the-pew-what-makes-a-good-sermon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/deaconsbench\/2013\/06\/view-from-the-pew-what-makes-a-good-sermon\/","title":{"rendered":"View from the Pew: What Makes a Good Sermon"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

This advice<\/a><\/strong> comes from\u00a0Kathleen T. Choi who writes \u201cIn Little Ways\u201d for The Hawaii Catholic Herald, newspaper of the Diocese of Honolulu:<\/p>\n

Dear Father X,<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Every Sunday, as we walk out the door, we shake your hand and say, \u201cGood sermon, Father.\u201d We\u2019re not lying. We\u2019re usually fairly satisfied with what you have to say, but no one is perfect. Even Kobe Bryant misses the occasional easy layup.<\/p>\n

You studied preaching in seminary, and presumably your professors gave you tips. We wonder, though, if you know what the average person in the pew is looking for in a homily. Maybe you\u2019d appreciate some feedback. If so, here are some thoughts for your consideration.<\/p>\n

First off, your sermon is very important to us. We know that we should read the Bible on our own and maybe participate in a prayer or study group. That\u2019s not possible right now, though, so your homily is basically all the religious instruction we get. Please make it your priority. We understand that you have many demands on your time, but we\u2019re not asking for a 30-minute Billy Graham production. The Vatican says a homily should be about eight minutes long, and that sounds good to us\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026Many books on how to give a speech suggest opening with a joke. That\u2019s not necessary, especially if you don\u2019t normally crack jokes. On the other hand, people always like stories. That\u2019s probably why Jesus told so many. If you\u2019ve got a good story that illustrates your point, we\u2019d love to hear it.<\/p>\n

Some priests claim that Protestant ministers have the edge in storytelling because they\u2019re usually married with children. True, but you grew up in a home with parents and siblings. You went to school. You have friends and favorite sports teams. Surely you\u2019ve seen how God acts in everyday circumstances. Tell us about that\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026Theology is important, but, honestly, we spend very little time pondering the Trinity or the mystery of transubstantiation. Mostly, we worry about our kids, our parents and our jobs. We struggle to forgive those who have hurt us. We wonder why the world is such a mess. We feel guilty that we don\u2019t do more for others. Show us how Christ can help us with these issues right now, and we\u2019ll bless your name. Who knows? We might even tithe.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

There\u2019s more. Read it all.\u00a0<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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