{"id":10544,"date":"2011-01-09T02:34:47","date_gmt":"2011-01-09T02:34:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/"},"modified":"2011-01-09T02:34:47","modified_gmt":"2011-01-09T02:34:47","slug":"what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/","title":{"rendered":"What are the FIVE most important lessons you learned in 2010: some sharings"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp.patheos.com.S3.amazonaws.com\/blogs\/sites\/356\/20070207think.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"image image-_original\" src=\"https:\/\/wp.patheos.com.S3.amazonaws.com\/blogs\/sites\/356\/20070207think.jpg\" alt=\"20070207think.jpg\"><\/a>I recently asked my Facebook friends, as to what were the FIVE most important life lessons they learned in the last year.  The sharings were very interesting and thoughts that we can all benefit from.  The specific learning may have been someone else\u2019s but these learnings can help us on our way as we move on to the new year and a new decade.  And maybe, some of these may resonate with you as well.<\/p>\n<p>Please do share your FIVE most important lessons from last year\u2026<\/p>\n<p><b>Philip Z.<\/b>: Don\u2019t force, have a short-term memory, and I forget the other three\u2026<\/p>\n<p><b>Amit R.<\/b>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Have patience and trust; We\u2019ll surely receive what we deserve.<\/li>\n<li>Anger is one of the biggest enemy.<\/li>\n<li>Accept people with their mistakes. Nobody is perfect.<\/li>\n<li> Have trust in God. Believe in God; He will save you even from the worst condi\u2026tion.<\/li>\n<li>Receive when it is time to receive back the blessing. By receiving, we\u2019re also helping others to remove burdan from them.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Garrimaa S.<\/b>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Silence is good<\/li>\n<li>One can replace complaints with praise<\/li>\n<li>Everything has two aspects without which that \u201cthing\u201d won\u2019t exist<\/li>\n<li>Balance in everything comes from moderation<\/li>\n<li>Death is inevitable<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Ajender S<\/b>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Sometimes giving up is better than screwing up.<\/li>\n<li>Love your self for a change<\/li>\n<li>Its good, that everyone in the world does not love you.<\/li>\n<li>great moments, make a great life.. focus on the moment.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t take your goals too seriously, they will change \u2026anyway, as we move forward<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Desh K.<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Take care of the one foot by one foot around you, the rest of the world will start falling into place.<\/li>\n<li>If you are diligent and honest; you needn\u2019t fear the consequences<\/li>\n<li>Things will be good and things will be bad. Remain Happy\u2026 and enjoy all the moments for they only come once.<\/li>\n<li>To have any chance of help from anyone, just help everyone you can in whatever way you can \u2013 indiscriminately. You will be surprised by the Universe!<\/li>\n<li>Whether you want to meet your Guru or not, when you are ready, He will get you. And get you GOOD!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Vish K.<\/b>: he most valuable learning for me in 2010 was the conviction that \u2018What one works hardest to keep, is generally lost\u2019 , courtesy of demonstations by Gerry Weinberg. It depressed the hell out of me.<\/p>\n<p><b>Archana C.<\/b>: To be \u201ccontent\u201d with life as it unfolds and to know that things will always change<\/p>\n<p><b>Carol S.<\/b>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Pay attention. All the time.<\/li>\n<li>Know when to hold \u2019em and when to fold \u2019em.<\/li>\n<li>Puppyhood is really nerve-wracking. But also incredibly enjoyabl\u2026e. (Didn\u2019t I learn that one before??)<\/li>\n<li>Trust in my connection with Source Energy \u2013 with God \u2013 and in the steady evolution of my soul.<\/li>\n<li>Be here now.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Somanjana C<\/b>:<br>\nAll I really needed to know I learnt in Kindergarten!  <i>And then she elaborated:<\/i><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Robert Fulghum said in this fantastic book:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMost of what I really need to know about how to live, and what to do, and how to be, I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top the graduate school mountain, but there in the sand box at\u2026 nursery school.<\/p>\n<p>These are the things I learned. Share everything. Play fair. Don\u2019t hit people. Put things back where you found them. Clean up your own mess. Don\u2019t take things that aren\u2019t yours. Say you are sorry when you hurt somebody. Wash your hands before you eat. Flush. Warm cookies and cold milk are food for you. Live a balanced life. Learn some and think some and draw some and paint and sing and dance and play and work everyday.<\/p>\n<p>Take a nap every afternoon. When you go out in the world, watch for traffic, hold hands, and stick together. Be aware of wonder. Remember the little seed in the plastic cup? The roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why. We are like that.<\/p>\n<p>And then remember that book about Dick and Jane and the first word you learned, the biggest word of all: LOOK! Everything you need to know is there somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation, ecology, and politics and the sane living.<\/p>\n<p>Think of what a better world it would be if we all, the whole world, had cookies and milk about 3 o\u2019clock every afternoon and then lay down with our blankets for a nap. Or we had a basic policy in our nation and other nations to always put thing back where we found them and clean up our own messes. And it is still true, no matter how old you are, when you go out in the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together\u201d. <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><b>Piyush M<\/b>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Have Patience, <\/li>\n<li>Ignore skeptics and march head on with your big picture agenda, <\/li>\n<li>The critics are your friends helping improve you <\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t sweat the small stuff <\/li>\n<li>Service before Self<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>What do you think?<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I recently asked my Facebook friends, as to what were the FIVE most important life lessons they learned in the last year.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1517,"featured_media":11306,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10544","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-motivation_and_personal_development"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>What are the FIVE most important lessons you learned in 2010: some sharings<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"I recently asked my Facebook friends, as to what were the FIVE most important life lessons they learned in the last year.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"What are the FIVE most important lessons you learned in 2010: some sharings\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"I recently asked my Facebook friends, as to what were the FIVE most important life lessons they learned in the last year.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Drishtikone\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2011-01-09T02:34:47+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Desh Kapoor\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Desh Kapoor\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"4 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/\",\"name\":\"What are the FIVE most important lessons you learned in 2010: some sharings\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2011-01-09T02:34:47+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2011-01-09T02:34:47+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/#\/schema\/person\/e24bcebf9da3425dd595b71543245311\"},\"description\":\"I recently asked my Facebook friends, as to what were the FIVE most important life lessons they learned in the last year.\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"What are the FIVE most important lessons you learned in 2010: some sharings\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/\",\"name\":\"Drishtikone\",\"description\":\"Perspective on Life and World from Hindu and Indian standpoints\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":\"required name=search_term_string\"}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/#\/schema\/person\/e24bcebf9da3425dd595b71543245311\",\"name\":\"Desh Kapoor\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/3cc132f0b1d11236e6dc28b12e598a23?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/3cc132f0b1d11236e6dc28b12e598a23?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Desh Kapoor\"},\"description\":\"Making sense of the world via the perspective of Dharma and Hinduism. Drishtikone literally means \\\"View from an Angle\\\" in Hindi. It is a word used for \\\"Perspective\\\" in Hindi conversations.\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/author\/drishtikone\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"What are the FIVE most important lessons you learned in 2010: some sharings","description":"I recently asked my Facebook friends, as to what were the FIVE most important life lessons they learned in the last year.","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"What are the FIVE most important lessons you learned in 2010: some sharings","og_description":"I recently asked my Facebook friends, as to what were the FIVE most important life lessons they learned in the last year.","og_url":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/","og_site_name":"Drishtikone","article_published_time":"2011-01-09T02:34:47+00:00","author":"Desh Kapoor","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Desh Kapoor","Est. reading time":"4 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/","url":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/","name":"What are the FIVE most important lessons you learned in 2010: some sharings","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/#website"},"datePublished":"2011-01-09T02:34:47+00:00","dateModified":"2011-01-09T02:34:47+00:00","author":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/#\/schema\/person\/e24bcebf9da3425dd595b71543245311"},"description":"I recently asked my Facebook friends, as to what were the FIVE most important life lessons they learned in the last year.","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/"]}]},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2011\/01\/what-are-five-most-important-lessons-you-learn-2010-some-sharings\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"What are the FIVE most important lessons you learned in 2010: some sharings"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/#website","url":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/","name":"Drishtikone","description":"Perspective on Life and World from Hindu and Indian standpoints","potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":"required name=search_term_string"}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/#\/schema\/person\/e24bcebf9da3425dd595b71543245311","name":"Desh Kapoor","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/3cc132f0b1d11236e6dc28b12e598a23?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/3cc132f0b1d11236e6dc28b12e598a23?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"Desh Kapoor"},"description":"Making sense of the world via the perspective of Dharma and Hinduism. Drishtikone literally means \"View from an Angle\" in Hindi. It is a word used for \"Perspective\" in Hindi conversations.","url":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/author\/drishtikone\/"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10544","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1517"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10544"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10544\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10544"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10544"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10544"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}