{"id":4670,"date":"2007-10-02T12:37:34","date_gmt":"2007-10-02T12:37:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2007\/10\/chalo-ek-baar-phir-se-guide-handling-dysfunctional-relationships\/"},"modified":"2007-10-02T12:37:34","modified_gmt":"2007-10-02T12:37:34","slug":"chalo-ek-baar-phir-se-guide-handling-dysfunctional-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/drishtikone\/2007\/10\/chalo-ek-baar-phir-se-guide-handling-dysfunctional-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Chalo Ek Baar Phir Se &#8211; guide to handling dysfunctional relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>There are many people who have problems in relationships.  It is tough in life to let go of relationships.  Specially those of the heart.  Here is a song that has been my guide for handling the dysfunctional relationships.  Specially the last stanza:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic\">Taaruf rog ho jaye\u2026<\/span><br><span style=\"font-style: italic\">to usko bhulna behtar<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic\">Taaluk bojh ban jaye\u2026<\/span><br><span style=\"font-style: italic\">to usko todna acchha.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic\">Wo afsana jise anjaam tak laana na ho mumkin;<\/span><br><span style=\"font-style: italic\">Use ek khoobsurat mod de kar chhodna accha!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>The beauty of old Hindi songs was that anyone could feel like it was written for him\/her.  Listen to this most wonderful voice of Mahendra Kapoor \u2013 one of the most under-rated voice in Indian Cinema!<\/p>\n<p><!--break--><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are many people who have problems in relationships.  It is tough in life to let go of relationships.  Specially those of the heart.  Here is a song that has been my guide for handling the dysfunctional relationships.  Specially the last stanza:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic\">Taaruf rog ho jaye&#8230;<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-style: italic\">to usko bhulna behtar<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic\">Taaluk bojh ban jaye&#8230;<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-style: italic\">to usko todna acchha.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic\">Wo afsana jise anjaam tak laana na ho mumkin;<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-style: italic\">Use ek khoobsurat mod de kar chhodna accha!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>The beauty of old Hindi songs was that anyone could feel like it was written for him\/her.  Listen to this most wonderful voice of Mahendra Kapoor &#8211; one of the most under-rated voice in Indian Cinema!<\/p>\n<p>\n","protected":false},"author":1517,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[43,44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4670","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-motivation_and_personal_development","category-movies"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Chalo Ek Baar Phir Se - guide to handling dysfunctional relationships<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"There are many people who have problems in relationships. It is tough in life to let go of relationships. Specially those of the heart. Here is a song that has been my guide for handling the dysfunctional relationships. 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