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\u201cWHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2026Because the expected answer to this question is always a type of job, it reinforces the idea that the way to find identity and value is through career. Our society is already saturated with messages that the title on your business card is directly connected to your worth as a human being. When kids are bombarded by the questions about which job they\u2019ll eventually hold, it trains them to view adult life through the lens of their place in the workforce.<\/p>\n

Similarly, it undermines the concept of vocation. Recently I saw a coloring book where kids could choose to decorate the picture that represented what they wanted to be when they grew up. Among the options were a nurse, a lawyer, a veterinarian, a police officer, a firefighter, and a mom. It was disturbing to see the fruits of a worldview that has no understanding of the difference between a vocation and a job, with motherhood listed alongside ways to get a paycheck. And when a child is constantly encouraged ponder her future career\u2014with the issue posed, as it often is, as one that will define her life\u2014it channels her discernment efforts toward whether she wants to be a musician or a teacher, rather than the more important question of whether she\u2019s called to married life or religious life.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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ETA: I like this comment!<\/p>\n

I\u2019m all for abolishing \u201cwhat do you do?\u201d from the grown-up lexicon. When an adult find themselves unemployed, underemployed or in a dead-end job, or even someone who owns their own business and severely struggling, it\u2019s a very uncomfortable conversation stopper.
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but for kids? Why that would wipe out the beautiful opportunities for children to respond to \u201cWhat do you want to be when you grow up?\u201d with, \u201cAn octopus!\u201d or \u201cA dinosaur.\u201d
We can\u2019t have that!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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