{"id":210,"date":"2011-11-26T18:41:00","date_gmt":"2011-11-26T18:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/evetushnet\/2011\/11\/210\/"},"modified":"2011-11-26T18:41:00","modified_gmt":"2011-11-26T18:41:00","slug":"210","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/evetushnet\/2011\/11\/210.html","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">I would say that those men are beasts rather than human beings who declare that a man ought to live in such a way as to be to no one a source of consolation, to no one a source even of grief or burden; to take no delight in the good fortune of another, or impart to others no bitterness because of their own misfortune, caring to cherish no one and to be cherished by no one.<\/span><br>\u2013Aelred (the character) in St. Aelred, <span style=\"font-style:italic\">Spiritual Friendship<\/span>. 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