{"id":5826,"date":"2012-06-12T13:44:00","date_gmt":"2012-06-12T17:44:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/evetushnet\/?p=5826"},"modified":"2012-06-12T13:44:00","modified_gmt":"2012-06-12T17:44:00","slug":"the-long-road-of-grace-and-mercy-calah-alexander","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/evetushnet\/2012\/06\/the-long-road-of-grace-and-mercy-calah-alexander.html","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;The Long Road of Grace and Mercy&#8221;: Calah Alexander"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>writes something <em>really<\/em> worth your time:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>My first child was conceived out of wedlock. I was, at the time, not  only unmarried but also a crystal meth addict. I was not Catholic but  some strange combination of agnostic\/lapsed Protestant; my boyfriend and  the father of my child was a Catholic. Obviously neither he nor I were  living virtuous lives at the time, but the reality of a child on the way  forced us to try and straighten ourselves out.<\/p>\n<p>We began seeing a wonderful Cistercian priest who helped us work  through that difficult time. One of the biggest issues facing us was the  question of what to do when the baby was born.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/Catholic\/Long-Road-Calah-Alexander-06-08-2012\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">more<\/a><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>writes something really worth your time: My first child was conceived out of wedlock. I was, at the time, not only unmarried but also a crystal meth addict. 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