{"id":8907,"date":"2014-10-04T13:52:46","date_gmt":"2014-10-04T17:52:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/evetushnet\/?p=8907"},"modified":"2014-10-04T13:52:46","modified_gmt":"2014-10-04T17:52:46","slug":"are-vowed-friendships-really-what-we-need-wesley-hill","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/evetushnet\/2014\/10\/are-vowed-friendships-really-what-we-need-wesley-hill.html","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Are &#8216;Vowed Friendships&#8217; Really What We Need?&#8221;: Wesley Hill"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>rounds up some links. Comments also worth reading; I\u2019m most sympathetic to the first comment, but others raise important points, including the stuff I talked about in that \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/evetushnet\/2014\/09\/captive-virgins-st-gregory-of-nyssa-vs-well-vs-me-i-guess.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">Captive Virgins<\/a>\u201d post:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">As I mentioned a few weeks ago, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/ct\/2014\/september\/why-cant-men-be-friends-wesley-hill-friendship.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">I wrote an article for <em>Christianity Today<\/em> on friendship<\/a>, basically making the case that we ought to be able to think of our Christian friendships as more significant, committed, public, and permanent than we usually do.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Well, since then, <a href=\"http:\/\/mereorthodoxy.com\/lavishness-friendship-world-beyond-vows\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Matthew Lee Anderson has offered a different perspective on his blog<\/a>. Furthermore, <a href=\"http:\/\/mereorthodoxy.com\/mere-fidelity-friendship\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">he and his friends devoted an episode of their podcast to talking about the issue<\/a>, and you can listen to that here.<\/p>\n<p>Now, most recently, the really thoughtful <a href=\"http:\/\/alastairadversaria.wordpress.com\/2014\/09\/25\/podcast-on-friendship\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Alastair Roberts has written up his thoughts on the issue<\/a>, and, as usual, I think they\u2019re worth reading in full.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/spiritualfriendship.org\/2014\/09\/27\/are-vowed-friendships-really-what-we-need\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">more<\/a><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>rounds up some links. Comments also worth reading; I\u2019m most sympathetic to the first comment, but others raise important points, including the stuff I talked about in that \u201cCaptive Virgins\u201d post: As I mentioned a few weeks ago, I wrote an article for Christianity Today on friendship, basically making the case that we ought to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1071,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[56,11,27,73],"class_list":["post-8907","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mackerel-snapping","tag-friendship","tag-his-banner-over-me-was-love","tag-vocation","tag-wesley-hill"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>&quot;Are &#039;Vowed Friendships&#039; Really What We Need?&quot;: Wesley Hill<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"rounds up some links. 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