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</html><description>We tend to create desire out of the desire of the other. The other could be law, society, God, peers and Other others. We attempt to try to fill these gaps of desire with things that cannot truly fill them. They are representations of representations. And so they aren't Real, they are simply real. The idea of love is a shadow to love. All of our ideas of love make up what love should/could be.</description></oembed>
