{"id":1081,"date":"2012-06-29T05:00:00","date_gmt":"2012-06-29T11:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/faithfuldemocrats\/2012\/06\/having-it-all-or-having-full-humanity\/"},"modified":"2012-12-08T20:22:06","modified_gmt":"2012-12-09T03:22:06","slug":"having-it-all-or-having-full-humanity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/faithfuldemocrats\/2012\/06\/having-it-all-or-having-full-humanity\/","title":{"rendered":"Having It All, or Having Full Humanity?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">It\u2019s been a busy week in media. Notably, the U.S. Supreme Court passed down decisions on Arizona\u2019s immigration law <em>and<\/em> the Affordable Care Act; sadly, screenwriter Nora Ephron passed away; and in the world of sports, Wimbledon is in full swing and the Olympics are right around the corner. What <em>I <\/em>can\u2019t seem to get out of my head, though, is an article I read Monday afternoon during my lunch hour. I\u2019m talking about last week\u2019s piece in the Atlantic written powerfully and thoughtfully by Anne-Marie Slaughter entitled, \u201cWhy Women Still Can\u2019t Have It All.\u201d \u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">In the piece, Slaughter talks about her career path, the struggles she\u2019s faced, and the decisions she\u2019s made; but at the heart of her message, she is trying to convey that there is something fundamentally and structurally wrong about the workplace. I hesitate to summarize her argument, just as I am always wary of trying to explain concisely how other social diseases like racism and class discrimination are institutional problems, but for the sake of this post I\u2019m going to try.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">There is a message sent to women in the workplace by both men and other women that you can \u201chave it all\u201d if only you work hard enough, sleep little enough, and be dedicated <em>enough<\/em>.\u00a0 By \u201call\u201d we mean a family, a great career, and maybe some semblance of a social life (ha!).\u00a0 But in a workplace built by men, there are seemingly insurmountable obstacles for women, the roots of which boil down to some really basic choices. For example, can working from home be a valid and respected option one or more days per week? Can in-house, in-person meetings be scheduled during the hours of the school day rather than evening dinners, thus alleviating the need for extra nanny finagling? Can we applaud rather than disparage men who turn down promotions and extra responsibility because it is in the best interest of their family? And can we embrace the fact that yes, women are the parent (in a heterosexual relationship) more likely to leave work early when a sick child calls from the nurse\u2019s office at school, but that having that woman in the workplace is important and valuable for the company because she brings things to the table that men do not?<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">As I read the article, I had to ask the question: Is there a Christian side to this conversation? I suppose the most accurate answer to that question is yes, in fact there are <em>many<\/em> Christian voices in this conversation, but among the Christian voices, their differences can often outweigh their similarities, so much so that it is hard to unite around anything.\u00a0 One biblical voice says <em>Husbands, in the same way, show consideration for your wives in your life together, paying honor to the woman as the weaker sex, since they too are also heirs of the gracious gift of life \u2013 so that nothing may hinder your prayers <\/em>(1 Peter 3:7). Okay, not bad.\u00a0 Another tells us <em>Let a woman learn in quietness with all subjection. But I permit not a woman to teach, nor to have dominion over a man, but to be in quietness<\/em> (1 Timothy 2:11-12). Um, really bad.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">Unapologetically, as a Christian and as a woman, I cannot accept as infallible any scripture or doctrine that tells me I can never work above men. I know it might seem a little counter intuitive to establish my rejection of scripture <em>in<\/em> my Christian faith (huh?), but bear with me just a little bit longer.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">Feminist theology, far from the angry bra-burning radical feminism of the 1960\u2019s and 70\u2019s revolves around the principle of full humanity. That doesn\u2019t sound too crazy, right? If you don\u2019t <em>call<\/em> it feminist theology, then we\u2019re talking about something very basic, that each person is brought into this world and bestowed with the <em>Imago Dei<\/em>, then deserves to flourish fully as a human.\u00a0 Rosemary Radford Ruether, a renowned feminist theologian writes, \u201cThe critical principle of feminist theology is the promotion of the full humanity of women.\u00a0 Whatever denies, diminishes, or distorts the full humanity of women is, therefore, appraised as not redemptive\u201d (Reuther, Sexism and God-talk 18).\u00a0 But beyond just women, \u201cAny principle of religion or society that marginalizes one group of persons as less than fully human diminishes us all\u201d (Ruether, Sexism and God-talk 20).\u00a0 Therefore, thoughts and actions that promote the full humanity of women (and any other marginalized or oppressed group of people) are holy; thoughts and actions that don\u2019t are not.\u00a0 Furthermore, this feminist voice is not asking for women to be treated as men, as that would be supporting masculinity as normative.\u00a0 Instead, women claim their own identity and ask for love and respect as a child of God in whatever way they choose to flourish.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">To bring this back to the article, it seems to me that if a woman of such incredible power and privilege feels like she cannot have a leading role in the workplace and simultaneously be a good mother to her teenage boys, then something is fundamentally wrong; it is most especially wrong because men <em>can<\/em> have a leading role in the workplace and simultaneously be considered a good dad. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font: normal normal normal 12px\/normal 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">Anne-Marie Slaughter, an accomplished academic and foreign policy analyst, doesn\u2019t believe things will change until one half of senators, one half of CEO\u2019s and top executives, and one half of tenured professors (among many other professions) are women.\u00a0 We don\u2019t just need women in the workplace; we need women in <em>leadership roles<\/em> in the workplace.\u00a0 But women must claim the power and authority themselves.\u00a0 We cannot advocate for our full humanity and expect men to give it to us.\u00a0 That\u2019s a little backwards, don\u2019t you think?\u00a0 The motivation to change the system will emerge out of both anger and hope; anger at the injustice (and at the fact that too many people won\u2019t acknowledge it as an injustice) and hope for a world without sexism, a world where all practices contribute to the full humanity of all persons, a world where all practices are redemptive. \u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s been a busy week in media. Notably, the U.S. Supreme Court passed down decisions on Arizona\u2019s immigration law and the Affordable Care Act; sadly, screenwriter Nora Ephron passed away; and in the world of sports, Wimbledon is in full swing and the Olympics are right around the corner. 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