Image via Shutterstock. Used with permission.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/p>What are your chances of raising faithful kids? \u00a0Answer these 5 questions!<\/em><\/p>\nFor the Catholic parent, there is no more important task than communicating our faith to our children. That doesn\u2019t just mean teaching our kids Catholic prayers and rituals. It means teaching them how to have a meaningful and personal relationship with God. How to think and act morally. How to love rightly and intimately. How to celebrate and live life as the gift that it is meant to be. And, ultimately, how to be saints \u2014 living witnesses to a life of grace.<\/span>
As critical as this mission is, it\u2019s understandable that many parents feel overwhelmed about the undertaking. Fortunately recent studies examining how faith is transmitted through family life is taking some of the mystery out of the process. Answer the following questions to see how effectively you are sharing the faith in your home.<\/span>
1. Do your children experience your faith as the source of your warm, family relationships?<\/strong>
The Christian life is a call to deeper relationship with God and others. It shouldn\u2019t come as a surprise, then, that children are much more likely to \u201cown\u201d their faith when they experience it as the source of the warmth of their family relationships. When children of faithful parents experience no difference in the quality of the relationships in their homes relative to the quality of the relationships in their non-Catholic or non-believing friends\u2019 homes, they come to see faith as either a hobby they can take or leave or, worse, as a fraud. This is especially true when faith is experienced as a collection of restrictions and rules instead of the source of the family\u2019s sense of joy and togetherness. To this end, children raised by faithful parents who adopt an authoritative parenting style marked by clear expectations and loving-guidance approaches to discipline are much more likely to raise faithful kids than are parents who adopt authoritarian (heavy-handed) or permissive (hands-off) parenting styles.<\/span>
2. Is your children\u2019s father taking the lead in faith formation practices and discussions?<\/strong>
Dad\u2019s active involvement is critical for effective faith transmission. For instance, one study showed that when fathers faithfully went to church despite being married to an unchurched woman, 44 percent of their children became regular churchgoers as adults, but when mothers faithfully went to church despite being married to an unchurched man, only 2 percent of their children grew up to be faithful church attendees. Dads must take the lead in the spiritual formation of their children if parents want the faith to stick.<\/span>
3. Are you actively helping your children develop a personally meaningful prayer life?<\/strong>
One recent study by CARA found that only about a quarter of Catholic families pray together. That\u2019s bad news because faith isn\u2019t just caught. It also needs to be taught. It isn\u2019t enough for children to watch their parents pray or to be passive participants in activities (like Mass) that their parents make them attend. Parents need to teach their children how to have a personal prayer life that children experience as relevant and emotionally engaging. This means more than teaching children to \u201csay\u201d their prayers. It means discipling children into an authentic relationship with God. Parents can do this through regular family prayer, having regular conversations about answered prayers and the role God plays in their lives as a family, and by coaching their children how to pray on their own in meaningful ways. \u2013 CONTINUE READING<\/a>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"What are your chances of raising faithful kids? \u00a0Answer these 5 questions! For the Catholic parent, there is no more important task than communicating our faith to our children. That doesn\u2019t just mean teaching our kids Catholic prayers and rituals. It means teaching them how to have a meaningful and personal relationship with God. How […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1437,"featured_media":2303,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[278,16,318,6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3118","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-attachment-2","category-faith","category-family-2","category-parenting"],"yoast_head":"\n
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