{"id":1152,"date":"2017-06-27T21:59:00","date_gmt":"2017-06-28T04:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/felixculpa\/?p=1152"},"modified":"2017-06-27T22:44:34","modified_gmt":"2017-06-28T05:44:34","slug":"1152","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/felixculpa\/2017\/06\/1152.html","title":{"rendered":"Cleveland Update: An Invitation to Pray"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-939 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/757\/2017\/05\/photo-1469081790383-8a72f16ecb98_opt-300x157.jpg\" alt=\"photo-1469081790383-8a72f16ecb98_opt\" width=\"300\" height=\"157\"><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>As I write, Shaun is upstairs purchasing airline tickets for our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/felixculpa\/2017\/06\/cleveland-heart-surge.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">trip to Cleveland<\/a>. I don\u2019t believe in online announcements of exact departure dates, because \u2026 robbers and murderers. But at any rate, do stay tuned.\u00a0I\u2019ll be posting updates as my appointments take place and we find out more about what the doctor thinks, when\/if I have heart surgery, etc. But for now, I thought it might be helpful to those who have messaged me to say they are praying, what exactly they could pray for. I\u2019ll update the prayer requests as things progress as well, but here goes for now:<\/p>\n<p><strong>One<\/strong>, pray however the Spirit leads. I\u2019m not here to tell you what to pray. Just that I do have specific, heartfelt prayer needs. So if you sense the Spirit telling you to pray a certain way, and it\u2019s not on my list, trust the Spirit. He knows me better than I know myself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Two<\/strong>, pray for the obvious: safe travels. We had planned to drive, but since Shaun is all tangled up in a shoulder contraption from Hades (snort), it\u2019s going to be difficult for him to sit behind the wheel in one position for over twenty hours in two days. As it is, he will need an aisle seat so he\u2019s not jabbing the person to his right with said contraption. None of which has to do with<em> safe<\/em> travels. Only <em>convenient<\/em> travels. But there isn\u2019t any such thing as convenient travel for us. Shaun will be confined. And I don\u2019t travel well, no matter the method, as I tire easily and must take half of a kitchen with me. In tow will be a dehydrator, a vegetable juicer, pots and pans, utensils, rags to strain certain foods, and food itself, such as yogurt starter and enough yogurt, chicken, and carrot juice to get me through a day and a half. It\u2019s more complicated than that, but I\u2019m probably not making any sense to those who do not know my food situation well. Suffice it to say,\u00a0<em>never<\/em> having the option of eating out or just grabbing a granola bar at the snack counter stinks. If I don\u2019t have food that I have carefully prepared, I am unable to eat. It\u2019s very much like living in the 1800\u2019s, food storage wise, where everything spoils quickly and nothing comes pre-packaged, but being expected to operate in a world where food is made in factories or fast food joints and all you do is throw money at some person wearing a ridiculous hat, or some machine, and <em>voila.<\/em> Food. Delicious food. I envy those of you who are spoiled so, as I used to be. But then, I don\u2019t have that whole problem of sugar and grease giving me zits. So there\u2019s that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Three<\/strong>, pray for heavenly wisdom for Dr. Wilkoff, my cardiologist who I\u2019ve been assigned to in Cleveland. Never met the man, obviously, but he has some impressive credentials. Pray that his eyes will be open as he studies (before I arrive) hundreds of pages of my medical history, so that he knows whether I am a good candidate for the surgery and whether, with my other, non-cardiac health problems, I could withstand a potentially life threatening heart surgery. Some days (bad ones, of course), I have my doubts that I am up for this. On my good days, I am probably over-confident and start thinking <em>anything you can do I can do better. <\/em>I guess you can also pray that I mature through this trial.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Four<\/strong>, for our finances. Our church has helped us with the first trip. No idea how we will get enough funds for the second trip at this point. We have been bombarded with medical bills the last three years and are doing our best to pay them off. I never get anywhere with paying off, it seems, because as soon as I pay enough to see them dwindle down, the next round comes in the mail and we find ourselves back at the square titled <em>One<\/em>. We normally pay health bills with the money brought in from Shaun\u2019s overtime, but of course he is on disability for the next three to four months because of his shoulder surgery. In a nutshell, we are in a bind. A pinch. Between a rock and a hard spot. However you like to express that feeling you get when you are watching Star Wars and Princess Leia and Luke find themselves in an odiferous garbage compactor with the walls slowly closing in.<\/p>\n<p><em>Hard pressed on every side, but not crushed.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Yes, that\u2019s the feeling.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Five<\/strong>, pray for stamina. I <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/felixculpa\/2017\/06\/1137.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">came back from my Dad\u2019s funeral <\/a>in my hometown completely drained. I truly don\u2019t travel well, as I cannot rest when needed, and that\u2019s all it takes for my symptoms to flare. Shaun is in a shoulder splint. My legs don\u2019t work when I don\u2019t rest, and sometimes when I do rest. So if I happen to need a wheelchair on our long walks through airports and hospitals, he can\u2019t even push me! Haha!! We will ask for help from the nice hospital\/airport people, if needed. But gosh. Life can be humbling.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Six,<\/strong> pray for spiritual growth. Anything and everything that happens in life is an opportunity to grow. We want that. Pray that we draw near to God, so He will draw near to us, that we won\u2019t let the stress of losing a parent, losing money, and possibly losing me make us snippy with one another, but more supportive of and loving toward one another. Toward others. Pray that others will see Christ in us, not us succumbing to fears, stress, and uncertainty.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Seven<\/strong>, and I close with this. Pray that I will be strong, yet humble. Does that makes sense? The only way to humble strength, I think, is through Christ. The strength <em>must<\/em> come from Him, and then He should receive the glory for supplying that strength. I read a blog post today that talked about the chief end of man: to glorify God and fully enjoy Him forever. The author went on to say that it\u2019s simple, really. If you\u2019re grieving, glorify. If you\u2019re washing dishes, glorify. If you\u2019re talking to your husband, glorify. If you\u2019re reading, glorify. If you\u2019re sleeping, glorify. If you\u2019re having sex, glorify. If you\u2019re getting your car washed, glorify. I can think of specific, practical ways to glorify in all of those situations. But I often just go about the day\u2019s agenda worried and stressed about how things will turn out. Whether it will all get done via a disabled body.<\/p>\n<p><em>So whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.<\/em> (I Cor. 10:31)<\/p>\n<p>If you are just coming out of surgery, glorify. If the airline has lost your luggage with all your kitchen gadgets and you are stuck for two days without food, glorify. If you are scrunched on an airplane, glorify. If you\u2019re sick with a migraine in an airport, glorify. And fully enjoy Him, which I think means to be delighted with Him, His love, His strength, His grace \u2026 all of Him and everything He is. Not <em>necessarily<\/em> because all my physical needs are met. But because He is\u00a0<em>enough<\/em>. Though the ticker doesn\u2019t tick right, the brain and intestines are faulty, and sometimes the legs, too \u2026 <em>humble yourself in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now if living it would only be as easy as writing it.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 As I write, Shaun is upstairs purchasing airline tickets for our trip to Cleveland. I don\u2019t believe in online announcements of exact departure dates, because \u2026 robbers and murderers. 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