{"id":515,"date":"2008-11-25T18:58:00","date_gmt":"2008-11-25T18:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/filmchat\/2008\/11\/wedding-comedies-the-male-version\/"},"modified":"2008-11-25T18:58:00","modified_gmt":"2008-11-25T18:58:00","slug":"wedding-comedies-the-male-version","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/filmchat\/2008\/11\/wedding-comedies-the-male-version.html","title":{"rendered":"Wedding comedies, the male version."},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_MwnH1kpbPRM\/SSzFdpp046I\/AAAAAAAACG0\/1SfnOwFL8F4\/s1600-h\/iloveyouman-et.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"cursor:pointer;cursor:hand;width: 400px;height: 236px\" src=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_MwnH1kpbPRM\/SSzFdpp046I\/AAAAAAAACG0\/1SfnOwFL8F4\/s400\/iloveyouman-et.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\"><\/a><br><span style=\"font-family: georgia\">The other day I caught <a href=\"http:\/\/www.apple.com\/trailers\/fox\/bridewars\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">a trailer<\/a> for <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0901476\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">Bride Wars<\/a><\/i>, a film that stars Anne Hathaway and Kate Hudson as two friends who turn against each other when their weddings are scheduled for the exact same day.  And I found myself wondering what the male equivalent of such a movie would be.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>In recent years, we have seen the rise of the \u201cbromance\u201d, the \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/filmchatblog.blogspot.com\/2007\/10\/buddy-comedy-turns-romantic-sort-of.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">man-crush rom-com<\/a>\u201c, the buddy movie about two straight men whose relationship follows the same narrative contours as a typical romantic comedy.  In movies like <i>Wedding Crashers<\/i>, <i>Superbad<\/i>, <i><a href=\"http:\/\/filmchatblog.blogspot.com\/2008\/11\/single-men-young-kids-and-elo.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Role Models<\/a><\/i> and so on, two guys \u2014 or three, in the case of <i><a href=\"http:\/\/filmchatblog.blogspot.com\/2008\/08\/pineapple-express-reviews-up.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Pineapple Express<\/a><\/i> \u2014 start as friends, \u201cbreak up\u201d about 15 to 30 minutes before the end, and then come together in a climactic reconciliation.  These men may or may not be involved in relationships with women, but ultimately, it is the affection between the men themselves that matters most.<\/p>\n<p>Watching the trailer for <i>Bride Wars<\/i>, I was reminded of the upcoming Paul Rudd comedy <i><a href=\"http:\/\/filmchatblog.blogspot.com\/2007\/12\/new-twist-on-man-crush-rom-com.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">I Love You, Man<\/a><\/i>.  Unlike <i>Bride Wars<\/i>, which is about two existing female friends who come to blows over a wedding date, <i>I Love You, Man<\/i> is all about a recently engaged man who needs to <i>find<\/i> a male friend to be his best man.  (As <a href=\"http:\/\/latimesblogs.latimes.com\/the_big_picture\/2008\/11\/movie-title-mad.html\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">Patrick Goldstein<\/a> recently summarized it, the movie is about \u201ca loner engaged to a nice girl\u201d who \u201cproceeds to go out on a series of male dates, hoping to find the right guy.\u201d)  In one film, the women come apart over a wedding, while in the other film, the men come together.<\/p>\n<p>And so, watching the <i>Bride Wars<\/i> trailer, I wondered what a movie about <i>men<\/i> coming apart over a wedding might look like.<\/p>\n<p>Well, it looks like we might find out soon.  <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.variety.com\/article\/VR1117996285.html?categoryid=13&amp;cs=1&amp;nid=2562\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">Variety<\/a><\/i> reports that Universal Pictures has acquired the script for a film called <i>Best Man-a-Thon<\/i>, which will concern \u201ca groom who\u2019s planning his wedding and his two buddies who battle to be best man.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It may be noteworthy that <i>Best Man-a-Thon<\/i> will concern not rival bridegrooms \u2014 which would provide a more exact parallel to <i>Bride Wars<\/i> \u2014 but, rather, rival groomsmen.  That may or may not reflect cultural assumptions about the differences between male and female attitudes towards weddings: the female movie focuses on a conflict over the \u201cspecial day\u201d, whereas the male movie has more to do with one\u2019s status within a given social group.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, <i>Best Man-a-Thon<\/i> sounds kind of like it could be the \u201cbromance\u201d version of all those romantic comedies in which two women compete for a man\u2019s affections (or, alternatively, two men compete for a woman\u2019s affections).<\/p>\n<p>It will be interesting to see what aspects of that buddy triangle the movie emphasizes, and whether the film ends up looking more like the all-male version of <i>Bridget Jones\u2019s Diary<\/i> (in which one groomsman is clearly \u201cright\u201d for the bridegroom while the other is not) or the all-male version of <i>My Best Friend\u2019s Wedding<\/i> (in which one groomsman has to learn to \u201clet go\u201d of the bridegroom and accept his preference for the other groomsman).<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The other day I caught a trailer for Bride Wars, a film that stars Anne Hathaway and Kate Hudson as two friends who turn against each other when their weddings are scheduled for the exact same day. 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