{"id":5538,"date":"2014-02-12T15:36:26","date_gmt":"2014-02-12T20:36:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/?p=5538"},"modified":"2014-02-12T15:36:26","modified_gmt":"2014-02-12T20:36:26","slug":"hey-bob-jones-heres-a-crazy-idea-how-about-we-stop-covering-up-sexual-abuse-in-our-institutions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/hey-bob-jones-heres-a-crazy-idea-how-about-we-stop-covering-up-sexual-abuse-in-our-institutions\/","title":{"rendered":"Hey Bob Jones&#8211; Here&#8217;s A Crazy Idea: How About We Stop Covering Up Sexual Abuse In Our Institutions?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/385\/2014\/02\/abuse_0.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-5539\" title=\"abuse_0\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/385\/2014\/02\/abuse_0.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"202\" height=\"153\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m so stinkin\u2019 tired of it.<\/p>\n<p>Every time a sex abuse scandal breaks out in a \u201cChristian\u201d circle I just want to punch the computer screen. What\u2019s equally infuriating is when said abuse is covered up, overlooked, or when the victim is blamed.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, it continues to happen.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not likely that any institution\u2013 Christian or otherwise\u2013 is ever going to be free from sexual predators. Predators by nature will find their way into institutions where they can prey on the vulnerable. Christian churches will not be free from predators, Islamic mosques will not be free\u2026 heck, even the local PTA isn\u2019t free. In this regard, we\u2019re not <em>always<\/em> going to be able to catch every sicko in the world before they have the chance to act.<\/p>\n<p>But here\u2019s what we do control:<\/p>\n<p><strong>We don\u2019t have to protect the predators when it happens.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Why this has been a trend in so many Christian institutions (Roman Catholic and Independent Fundamentalist Baptist, most notably) I haven\u2019t a clue, because it\u2019s disgusting beyond comprehension.<\/p>\n<p>Any time an injustice as egregious as sexual abuse is covered up or ignored in the slightest way, we side with the oppressor instead of the oppressed. God have mercy on us for that (seriously, we better hope he has mercy on us).<\/p>\n<p>Now, we can add Bob Jones University (BJU) to the long list of coverups. As has been spreading over the wires for the last week, BJU was finally in the process of addressing decades of alleged sexual abuse and cover-up. As reported by the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2014\/02\/12\/education\/christian-school-faulted-for-halting-abuse-study.html?_r=0\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">New York Times<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cFor decades, students at Bob Jones University who sought counseling for sexual abuse were told not to report it because turning in an abuser from a fundamentalist Christian community would damage Jesus Christ. Administrators called victims liars and sinners.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>BJU seemed to finally take a few steps in the right direction by hiring a 3rd party, GRACE (Godly Response to Abuse in the Christian Environment) to do a <a href=\"http:\/\/netgrace.org\/investigation\/bob-jones-university\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">complete and independent investigation and publish the results<\/a>. GRACE was nearing completion of publication of the results of the investigation when Bob Jones, without warning, pulled the plug and asked to keep the results of the investigation hush-hush.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the same process of siding with the oppressor that we\u2019ve been seeing with institutions for years now.<\/p>\n<p>As Christians, we must demand an end to this type of cover up. This idea that it is harmful to an institution when they are open and transparent about a case of abuse is blatantly false. Institutions don\u2019t sexually abuse people, sex predators abuse people. What an institution IS responsible for however, is how they prevent abuse and handle cases of abuse when they are discovered. Being open and transparent is the right thing to do.<\/p>\n<p>This is where our institutions are failing, and <strong>we must become the voice that says we\u2019re not going to tolerate siding with the oppressors<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>As Jesus followers, we\u2019re called to stand up to oppression and violence wherever we see it. Christian institutions who cover up abuse re-violate victims and become as guilty as the original predator\u2013 and they must be stopped, just as individual predators must be stopped.<\/p>\n<p>Please join me in keeping the pressure on Bob Jones until they do the right thing for the victims. You can post a comment on their Facebook page <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/BobJonesUniversity\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">here<\/a>, or can call their main switchboard at (800) 242-5100 with your polite but firm demand that they allow GRACE to finalize their investigation, and that all guilty parties are held to account for their actions.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As Jesus followers, we\u2019re called to stand up to oppression and violence wherever we see it. Christian institutions who cover up abuse re-violate victims and become as guilty as the original predator\u2013 and they must be stopped, just as individual predators must be stopped.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1638,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,18],"tags":[3207,268,269],"class_list":["post-5538","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-christian-culture","category-fundamentalism","tag-abuse","tag-bob-jones","tag-sexual-abuse"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Hey Bob Jones-- Here&#039;s A Crazy Idea: How About We Stop Covering Up Sexual Abuse In Our Institutions?<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"As Jesus followers, we\u2019re called to stand up to oppression and violence wherever we see it. Christian institutions who cover up abuse re-violate victims and become as guilty as the original predator\u2013 and they must be stopped, just as individual predators must be stopped.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"noindex, follow\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Hey Bob Jones-- Here&#039;s A Crazy Idea: How About We Stop Covering Up Sexual Abuse In Our Institutions?\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"As Jesus followers, we\u2019re called to stand up to oppression and violence wherever we see it. Christian institutions who cover up abuse re-violate victims and become as guilty as the original predator\u2013 and they must be stopped, just as individual predators must be stopped.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/hey-bob-jones-heres-a-crazy-idea-how-about-we-stop-covering-up-sexual-abuse-in-our-institutions\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"The Official Blog of Benjamin L. Corey\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:author\" content=\"www.facebook.com\/benjaminlcorey\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2014-02-12T20:36:26+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"http:\/\/wp.patheos.com.s3.amazonaws.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/files\/2014\/02\/abuse_0.jpg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Benjamin L. Corey\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@benjaminlcorey\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Benjamin L. Corey\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/hey-bob-jones-heres-a-crazy-idea-how-about-we-stop-covering-up-sexual-abuse-in-our-institutions\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/hey-bob-jones-heres-a-crazy-idea-how-about-we-stop-covering-up-sexual-abuse-in-our-institutions\/\",\"name\":\"Hey Bob Jones-- Here's A Crazy Idea: How About We Stop Covering Up Sexual Abuse In Our Institutions?\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2014-02-12T20:36:26+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2014-02-12T20:36:26+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/#\/schema\/person\/1a0a6e124f80e91425d10f984ab76c99\"},\"description\":\"As Jesus followers, we\u2019re called to stand up to oppression and violence wherever we see it. Christian institutions who cover up abuse re-violate victims and become as guilty as the original predator\u2013 and they must be stopped, just as individual predators must be stopped.\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/hey-bob-jones-heres-a-crazy-idea-how-about-we-stop-covering-up-sexual-abuse-in-our-institutions\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/hey-bob-jones-heres-a-crazy-idea-how-about-we-stop-covering-up-sexual-abuse-in-our-institutions\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/hey-bob-jones-heres-a-crazy-idea-how-about-we-stop-covering-up-sexual-abuse-in-our-institutions\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Hey Bob Jones&#8211; Here&#8217;s A Crazy Idea: How About We Stop Covering Up Sexual Abuse In Our Institutions?\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/\",\"name\":\"The Official Blog of Benjamin L. Corey\",\"description\":\"\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":\"required name=search_term_string\"}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/#\/schema\/person\/1a0a6e124f80e91425d10f984ab76c99\",\"name\":\"Benjamin L. Corey\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/18d6b8fa9820899ef31d365d7e9c0418?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/18d6b8fa9820899ef31d365d7e9c0418?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Benjamin L. Corey\"},\"description\":\"Benjamin L. Corey is a cultural anthropologist and public theologian. He is a two-time graduate of Gordon-Conwell (theology &amp; missiology) and received his Doctor of Intercultural Studies (DIS) from Fuller. He is the author of Unafraid: Moving Beyond Fear-Based Faith, which is available for preorder, today! He is currently signed to HarperOne and is represented by the Daniel Literary Agency in Nashville, Tennessee. You can also follow him on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.\",\"sameAs\":[\"www.facebook.com\/benjaminlcorey\",\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/benjaminlcorey\"],\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/author\/benjaminlcorey\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Hey Bob Jones-- Here's A Crazy Idea: How About We Stop Covering Up Sexual Abuse In Our Institutions?","description":"As Jesus followers, we\u2019re called to stand up to oppression and violence wherever we see it. Christian institutions who cover up abuse re-violate victims and become as guilty as the original predator\u2013 and they must be stopped, just as individual predators must be stopped.","robots":{"index":"noindex","follow":"follow"},"og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"Hey Bob Jones-- Here's A Crazy Idea: How About We Stop Covering Up Sexual Abuse In Our Institutions?","og_description":"As Jesus followers, we\u2019re called to stand up to oppression and violence wherever we see it. Christian institutions who cover up abuse re-violate victims and become as guilty as the original predator\u2013 and they must be stopped, just as individual predators must be stopped.","og_url":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/hey-bob-jones-heres-a-crazy-idea-how-about-we-stop-covering-up-sexual-abuse-in-our-institutions\/","og_site_name":"The Official Blog of Benjamin L. Corey","article_author":"www.facebook.com\/benjaminlcorey","article_published_time":"2014-02-12T20:36:26+00:00","og_image":[{"url":"http:\/\/wp.patheos.com.s3.amazonaws.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/files\/2014\/02\/abuse_0.jpg"}],"author":"Benjamin L. Corey","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_creator":"@benjaminlcorey","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Benjamin L. Corey","Est. reading time":"3 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/hey-bob-jones-heres-a-crazy-idea-how-about-we-stop-covering-up-sexual-abuse-in-our-institutions\/","url":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/hey-bob-jones-heres-a-crazy-idea-how-about-we-stop-covering-up-sexual-abuse-in-our-institutions\/","name":"Hey Bob Jones-- Here's A Crazy Idea: How About We Stop Covering Up Sexual Abuse In Our Institutions?","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/#website"},"datePublished":"2014-02-12T20:36:26+00:00","dateModified":"2014-02-12T20:36:26+00:00","author":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/#\/schema\/person\/1a0a6e124f80e91425d10f984ab76c99"},"description":"As Jesus followers, we\u2019re called to stand up to oppression and violence wherever we see it. Christian institutions who cover up abuse re-violate victims and become as guilty as the original predator\u2013 and they must be stopped, just as individual predators must be stopped.","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/hey-bob-jones-heres-a-crazy-idea-how-about-we-stop-covering-up-sexual-abuse-in-our-institutions\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/hey-bob-jones-heres-a-crazy-idea-how-about-we-stop-covering-up-sexual-abuse-in-our-institutions\/"]}]},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/hey-bob-jones-heres-a-crazy-idea-how-about-we-stop-covering-up-sexual-abuse-in-our-institutions\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Hey Bob Jones&#8211; Here&#8217;s A Crazy Idea: How About We Stop Covering Up Sexual Abuse In Our Institutions?"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/#website","url":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/","name":"The Official Blog of Benjamin L. Corey","description":"","potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":"required name=search_term_string"}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/#\/schema\/person\/1a0a6e124f80e91425d10f984ab76c99","name":"Benjamin L. Corey","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/18d6b8fa9820899ef31d365d7e9c0418?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/18d6b8fa9820899ef31d365d7e9c0418?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"Benjamin L. Corey"},"description":"Benjamin L. Corey is a cultural anthropologist and public theologian. He is a two-time graduate of Gordon-Conwell (theology &amp; missiology) and received his Doctor of Intercultural Studies (DIS) from Fuller. He is the author of Unafraid: Moving Beyond Fear-Based Faith, which is available for preorder, today! He is currently signed to HarperOne and is represented by the Daniel Literary Agency in Nashville, Tennessee. You can also follow him on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.","sameAs":["www.facebook.com\/benjaminlcorey","https:\/\/twitter.com\/benjaminlcorey"],"url":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/author\/benjaminlcorey\/"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5538","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1638"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5538"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5538\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5538"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5538"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/formerlyfundie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5538"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}