{"id":7480,"date":"2019-11-29T05:35:43","date_gmt":"2019-11-29T09:35:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/frankviola\/?p=7480"},"modified":"2018-05-28T09:37:51","modified_gmt":"2018-05-28T13:37:51","slug":"uglyside","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/frankviola\/uglyside\/","title":{"rendered":"An Ugly Side of Christianity"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>I was speaking to a friend awhile ago. He was telling me that many Christian conference hosts, who also happen to be speakers, intentionally don\u2019t invite certain speakers to speak at their conferences out of jealousy.<\/p>\n<p>To put it in a sentence: <em>They don\u2019t wish to be upstaged.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>He used an illustration involving the rock band U2. Suppose that U2 invited a certain band to open for them. But that band ended up being more gifted, more talented, and received a stronger reaction than U2 ever did.<\/p>\n<p>His question, \u201cWould U2 invite that band to open for them again?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>His answer: \u201cOf course not.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>When my friend shared this with me, I was taken back. But upon reflection, I\u2019m convinced he\u2019s right.<\/p>\n<p>This explains why the most gifted speakers who have the most powerful ministries in our time aren\u2019t invited to the largest conferences in the Christian world.<\/p>\n<p>It has to do with the fear of being upstaged.<\/p>\n<p>Ugly, but true nonetheless. Perhaps this will change in the days to come.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/Insurgence.org\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-8720\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/301\/2018\/06\/1200x627-2-1024x535.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"535\"><\/a><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was speaking to a friend awhile ago. He was telling me that many Christian conference hosts, who also happen to be speakers, intentionally don\u2019t invite certain speakers to speak at their conferences out of jealousy. 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