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\u201cThe ground is level at the foot of the cross.\u201d Standing in line is leveling. Egalitarian.\u00a0I was recently\u00a0standing in line at a store and noted the variety of people. Some were more\u00a0accomplished, articulate, or attractive than others. But no one gets to the front based on those merits, only by the equal investment of standing […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2073,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,9,12],"tags":[82,114,174,175,182,343,344,363,364,365,366,372,457,475,478,479,480,506,626,627,739,740,743,770,785,786,962,1012,1089,1099,1100,1103],"class_list":["post-3822","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-church-religion","category-lgbtq-support","category-the-real-jesus","tag-are-people-born-gay","tag-bible-homosexuality","tag-christian-parents-gay-child","tag-christian-parents-of-gay-children","tag-christians-with-gay-children","tag-freed-hearts","tag-freedhearts","tag-gay-children","tag-gay-christian","tag-gay-christian-charity","tag-gay-christian-community","tag-gay-kids","tag-help-my-child-is-gay","tag-homosexuality","tag-homosexuality-and-sin","tag-homosexuality-and-the-bible","tag-homosexuality-and-the-church","tag-how-to-respond-to-a-gay-child","tag-lgbtq-charity","tag-lgbtq-christian","tag-my-child-is-gay","tag-my-daughter-is-gay","tag-my-son-is-gay","tag-parent-of-a-gay-child","tag-parents-of-gay-children","tag-parents-of-gay-kids","tag-susan-cottrell","tag-to-christian-parents-of-gay-children","tag-what-do-you-do-when-your-son-is-gay","tag-what-to-do-if-your-son-is-gay","tag-what-to-do-when-your-son-is-gay","tag-when-your-family-rejects-you"],"yoast_head":"\n
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