{"id":3884,"date":"2013-12-09T09:09:24","date_gmt":"2013-12-09T15:09:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/freedhearts\/?p=3884"},"modified":"2016-03-17T15:26:23","modified_gmt":"2016-03-17T20:26:23","slug":"mom-im-gay-book-preorder-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/freedhearts\/2013\/12\/09\/mom-im-gay-book-preorder-now\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Mom, I&#8217;m Gay&#8221; Book &#8211; REVISED AND EXPANDED!"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/487\/2013\/12\/MIG-NEW-COVER.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-10976\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-10976 \" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/487\/2013\/12\/MIG-NEW-COVER-194x300.jpg\" alt=\"MIG NEW COVER!\" width=\"219\" height=\"338\"><\/a><em><em>\u201cWhen our child told us they were attracted to the same sex, we were shocked. The usual questions flooded us: what would this mean for their life? Would they be safe? Would they ever have children? We truly had no idea what lay ahead. But here\u2019s the realization that smacked us: we were now the \u2018others.\u2019\u00a0 <\/em><em>Over the three years following our child\u2019s revelation, we met many Christian parents of gay kids, and realized we were not the only ones to see that the emperor had no clothes. I believe that God is shaking the church until what\u2019s left is the unshakable: God. <\/em><em>There IS a way to love your LGBTQ child without sacrificing your faith. We can have more peace than we ever knew possible, and joy beyond our wildest dreams, as our children flourish in God\u2019s inexhaustible love for them. I hope you will join me on this quest.\u201d \u2013 Susan<\/em><\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">It\u2019s finally here, the book so many of you have been asking for \u2014 <strong>with a special foreword by Justin Lee, author of <em>Torn<\/em> and Executive Director of The Gay Christian Network<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Parents are being surprised daily as their kids come out. Many are left shell-shocked, unsure how to reconcile the situation, and unsure how this fits with what they\u2019ve always believed about homosexuality. I know how you feel. This book is straight from my heart, and is a feet-on-the-ground approach to bringing all the pieces together. 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