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<\/p>\nEach week for many years, Garrison Keillor told \u201cPrairie Home Companion\u201d listeners the news from Lake Wobegon, where \u201call the women are strong, all the men are good-looking, and all the children are above average.\u201d I\u2019ll bet the Holy Family was like that.<\/p>\n
Lots of people think their children are well \u201cabove average\u201d\u2014hence, the bumper stickers in which parents boast that they are the \u201cProud Parents of an Honor Student at _________.\u201d\u00a0Everyone thinks their child is precocious and the smartest\/best looking\/most creative human being ever. Every parent expects their infant to earn either a full academic or full athletic scholarship (probably both) to the college of their choice when the time comes. I doubt there is a place for a bumper sticker on a donkey, but if there is, what would Mary and Joseph\u2019s donkey sticker have said?\u00a0\u201cProud Parents of the Savior of the World\u201d? \u201cOur Kid is God in the Flesh\u201d? Because there\u2019s precocity, and then there\u2019s\u00a0precocity<\/b>.<\/p>\n
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In \u201cThe Nativity Story,\u201d a significant amount of time is spent on Mary and Joseph\u2019s journey from Nazareth south to Bethlehem. The filmmaker creatively lets us spend some time with these two young people, almost strangers to each other, who have been named as players in a divine plan that they have been told very little about. At one point, Mary asks Joseph what the angel had said to him.<\/p>\n
Joseph: He said to not be afraid. (pause) Are you afraid?<\/p>\n
Mary: Yes. Are you?<\/p>\n
Joseph: Yes.<\/p>\n
Mary: Do you ever wonder when we\u2019ll know? That he is not just a child? Something he says, a look in his eyes?<\/p>\n
Joseph: Sometimes I wonder will I be able to even teach him anything.<\/p>\n
No kidding. When it is predicted by the angels that the soon-to-be-born baby will \u201csave his people from their sins,\u201d one\u2019s possible parental and step-parental contributions certainly seem to pale in comparison.<\/p>\n
Although you wouldn\u2019t know it from the mass quantities of commentary and artwork that have been produced over the last two thousand years, the canonical Gospels tell us remarkably little about holy family life. The non-canonical gospels, however, contain some stories that entirely corroborate Mary and Joseph\u2019s pre-birth concerns.\u00a0Jesus makes clay birds, which then come to life and fly away. Jesus strikes an annoying playmate dead. Jesus brings a less annoying playmate back to life after a fatal accident. School is a disaster, since every time a teacher tries to teach Jesus something, Jesus starts doing the teaching instead. Joseph and Mary\u2019s worst fears come true.<\/p>\n
The canonical gospels essentially leave us in the dark about Jesus between birth and thirty years old. We get the circumcision, the three kings, the flight to Egypt, Jesus growing in wisdom and stature, and a central text from Luke 2, twelve-year-old Jesus in the temple. This is today\u2019s gospel reading. The various artist\u2019s renditions I\u2019ve seen of this story are pretty much the same\u2014Jesus, looking particularly Aryan in the center of a holy glow, pontificates and astounds while his learned elders in the shadows lean away in disbelief and awe and some scribe takes notes. It\u2019s kind of how I like to selectively remember myself as a fifth or sixth grader, astounding (annoying?) my teacher and fellow students with yet another piece of fascinating (to me), but useless (to anyone else) information. Lovely scene, except that it has a lot more to do with what we think<\/b>\u00a0Jesus at twelve would have been like than anything from the story in Luke.<\/p>\n
The actual story gives us a glimpse into a real family, holy or not. After going to the feast in Jerusalem with friends and family, as is their annual custom, Mary and Joseph are returning north to Nazareth. Although they\u2019re not sure where Jesus is, they assume that he\u2019s running around with his friends somewhere in the traveling group, so they don\u2019t worry about it. Good for them\u2014he\u2019s almost a teenager, and they\u2019ve loosened the parental leash a little bit. Let the boy have some freedom.<\/p>\n
But when he doesn\u2019t show up at the end of the day, they\u2019re worried. After failing to find him in the caravan, they return in panic to Jerusalem, where after three days they find him in the temple \u201csitting in the midst of the teachers.\u201d In response to his mother\u2019s exasperated and relieved \u201cWhat the hell is your problem?? We\u2019ve been looking all over for you!!! We thought you\u2019d\u00a0been kidnapped!!!!<\/b>\u201d, Jesus gives a predictable, smart-alecky twelve-year-old response: \u201cWhy is it that you sought me? Did you not know that I must be about my Father\u2019s business?\u201d Oh really?? \u201cGuess what? You\u2019re grounded! Once we get back to Nazareth you can \u2018be about your Father\u2019s business\u2019\u00a0in your room!!<\/b>\u201d Luke chooses not to tell us if Jesus lived under house arrest for the next year.<\/p>\n
This is a real family, struggling with the challenges of love, faith, boundaries, and growing up. Despite the usual interpretations of this story, I think that Jesus had not gone to the Temple to school the experts\u2014something he presumably could have done, given his pedigree and all. He was \u201csitting in the midst of the teachers, both listening to them and asking them questions.\u201d<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t know whether twelve-year-old Jesus thought he was the Son of God\u2014my bet is that he didn\u2019t. But he did know where he wanted to be\u2014he wanted to be where he could learn. Certainly the mystery and splendor of the Temple would have been an attraction for any young Jewish boy. But the real attraction was that this is where learning happened. This is where the most intelligent and educated people of Jesus\u2019 society gathered to debate, to investigate, to discuss, and to discover. And that\u2019s where Jesus wanted to be\u2014listening and asking questions. Even the Son of God had a lot to learn and knew how to get started. Put yourself in the right place and open yourself up.<\/p>\n
Reflecting on this will be a good preparation for the upcoming semester. The life of learning is so much more about quietness, attentive listening, and perceptive questions than conveying facts and information.\u00a0This is where the divine in each of our human vessels gets awakened and fanned into flame. It\u2019s a privilege to participate. When, as always happens, I find myself buried under and frustrated by piles of grading and endless department and committee meetings in a few weeks, I\u2019ll try to remember twelve-year-old Jesus, who knew where he belonged. He was about his Father\u2019s business. Go and do likewise.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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