{"id":13906,"date":"2016-03-20T20:08:25","date_gmt":"2016-03-21T01:08:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/frenchrevolution\/?p=13906"},"modified":"2016-03-20T20:08:25","modified_gmt":"2016-03-21T01:08:25","slug":"worst-thing-can-say-friend-tells-theyre-sex-attracted","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/frenchrevolution\/2016\/03\/20\/worst-thing-can-say-friend-tells-theyre-sex-attracted\/","title":{"rendered":"What is the Worst Thing You Can Say to a Friend Who Tells You They\u2019re Same-Sex Attracted?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-13909\" 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