{"id":4680,"date":"2012-11-14T10:16:45","date_gmt":"2012-11-14T15:16:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/frenchrevolution\/?p=4680"},"modified":"2012-11-14T10:16:45","modified_gmt":"2012-11-14T15:16:45","slug":"the-military-has-an-infidelity-problem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/frenchrevolution\/2012\/11\/14\/the-military-has-an-infidelity-problem\/","title":{"rendered":"The Military Has An Infidelity Problem"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><div id=\"resizetext\">\n<div>\n<div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/frenchrevolution\/2012\/11\/14\/the-military-has-an-infidelity-problem\/petraeus-infidelity\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-4683\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4683\" title=\"petraeus infidelity\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/9\/2012\/11\/petraeus-infidelity.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"457\" height=\"272\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>As the Petraeus affair now degenerates into near-farce (but with perhaps fatal consequences \u2014 with a series of now-notorious debacles in Afghanistan and Libya, it raises questions as to whether our soldiers are being led effectively when their leaders are living through romantic plots fit for Jerry Springer), it highlights the military\u2019s significant infidelity problem. <!--more-->While the \u201cDear John\u201d letter has long been a staple of deployments, our new coed military now gives as good as it gets while deployed downrange.<\/p>\n<p>In the military \u2014 as elsewhere \u2014 sexual scandal is simply called \u201cdrama,\u201d and \u201cdrama\u201d (with its related fights, substance abuse, and sometimes even suicide attempts) can dominate military justice in deployed environments. During my deployment, I was with an all-male combat arms unit on a small, isolated base and thus missed most of the controversy that sometimes consumed entire units. But go to Balad \u2014 or one of the other larger bases \u2014 and it was everywhere. The larger DFACs (dining facilities) were the deployed equivalent of singles bars, and the omnipresent port-o-pot was a favorite location for clandestine couplings.<\/p>\n<p>At some level this is entirely predictable: Place thousands of young men and women together in close quarters, put them through a shared (and intense) experience, and relationships are inevitable. Military regulations can\u2019t spontaneously generate a deployed legion of coed puritans. Nor is this a new problem: There is a long tradition of \u201ccamp followers\u201d that trailed behind armies in the field.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a problem without an easy solution. Historically, many outstanding combat officers have been known philanderers, while marital fidelity does not necessarily translate into martial effectiveness. I tend to think that the military should be far more ruthlessly accountable regarding its primary job: combat effectiveness. Distracted officers (for any reason) tend to be poor leaders, and perhaps a focus on outcomes will do more to deal with the distractions than a myriad of regulations covering all potential human failings.<\/p>\n<p><em>[<a href=\"http:\/\/www.nationalreview.com\/corner\/333286\/military-has-infidelity-problem-david-french\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Ed. Note: This column originally appeared at National Review Online.<\/a>]<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you think the problem of infidelity in the military is limited to top generals? 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