Marriage is more than your love for each other. It has a higher dignity and power, for it is God\u2019s holy ordinance, through which He wills to perpetuate the human race till the end of time. In your love, you see only the heaven of your own happiness, but in marriage you are placed at a post of responsibility towards the world and mankind. Your love is your own private possession, but marriage is more than something personal \u2014 it is a status, an office. Just as it is the crown, and not merely the will to rule, that makes the king, so it is marriage, and not merely your love for each other, that joins you together in the sight of God and man.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
It is possible to rule by force by simply seizing power.\u00a0 But without a \u201ccrown\u201d\u2013that is, being lawfully entitled to rule\u2013the\u00a0ruler will lack genuine authority.\u00a0 Similarly, a person can enter into a wide range of\u00a0conditions in order to \u201cfind happiness,\u201d including sologamy, but to get married is to enter \u201ca status, an office\u201d; that is, a vocation.<\/p>\n
And this vocation is not only inwardly focused, towards the couple or the two selves that make up the couple, it is \u201ca post of responsibility towards the world and mankind.\u201d\u00a0 Since it involves the perpetuation of \u201cthe human race till the end of time,\u201d creating a family that becomes the institution for having and caring for children, it involves the married couple with the outside world, since they\u00a0become responsible for their children\u2019s\u00a0well-being now and in their future.<\/p>\n
\u201cMarriage is more than something personal\u201d\u2013it is a vocation, which God inhabits and through which He Himself works.<\/p>\n
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