{"id":33683,"date":"2018-05-03T05:45:14","date_gmt":"2018-05-03T09:45:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/geneveith\/?p=33683"},"modified":"2018-05-02T13:35:45","modified_gmt":"2018-05-02T17:35:45","slug":"all-the-lonely-people-where-do-they-all-come-from","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/geneveith\/2018\/05\/all-the-lonely-people-where-do-they-all-come-from\/","title":{"rendered":"All the Lonely People, Where Do They All Come From?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/305\/2018\/05\/Loneliness_in_a_Crowd.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-33734\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/305\/2018\/05\/Loneliness_in_a_Crowd.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"511\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Most Americans are lonely, according to a new study.\u00a0 And, contrary to what we might expect, the older you are, the less lonely you feel.\u00a0 In fact, loneliness is greatest among young people.<\/p>\n<p>The study, sponsored by Cigna Insurance, surveyed 20,000 Americans, aged 18 and over.\u00a0 It made use of the <a href=\"http:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2F0022-3514.39.3.472\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">USC Loneliness Scale<\/a>, which measures various factors defining loneliness on a scale of 20-80.\u00a0 Someone with a score of 43 can be described as \u201clonely.\u201d\u00a0 Higher scores show just how lonely the person is.\u00a0 For the full report, go <a href=\"https:\/\/www.multivu.com\/players\/English\/8294451-cigna-us-loneliness-survey\/docs\/IndexReport_1524069371598-173525450.pdf\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div id=\"premium-content\">\n<p>Here is a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.multivu.com\/players\/English\/8294451-cigna-us-loneliness-survey\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">summary of the findings<\/a>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Nearly half<\/strong>\u00a0of Americans report sometimes or always feeling alone (46 percent) or left out (47 percent).<\/li>\n<li><strong>One in four<\/strong>\u00a0Americans (27 percent) rarely or never feel as though there are people who really understand them.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Two in five<\/strong>\u00a0Americans sometimes or always feel that their relationships are not meaningful (43 percent) and that they are isolated from others (43 percent).<\/li>\n<li><strong>One in five<\/strong>\u00a0people report they rarely or never feel close to people (20 percent) or feel like there are people they can talk to (18 percent).<\/li>\n<li>Americans who live with others are less likely to be lonely (average loneliness score of 43.5) compared to those who live alone (46.4). However, this does not apply to single parents\/guardians (average loneliness score of 48.2) \u2013\u00a0<strong>even though they live with children, they are more likely to be lonely.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Only around half of Americans<\/strong>\u00a0(53 percent) have meaningful in-person social interactions, such as having an extended conversation with a friend or spending quality time with family, on a daily basis.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Generation Z (adults ages 18-22) is the loneliest generation<\/strong>\u00a0and claims to be in worse health than older generations.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Social media use alone is not a predictor of loneliness<\/strong>; respondents defined as very heavy users of social media have a loneliness score (43.5) that is not markedly different from the score of those who never use social media (41.7).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The average score was 44, which suggests that Americans, on the whole, are indeed lonely to one degree or another.\u00a0 Members of Generation Z\u00a0 (18-20 something) had the highest loneliness score of 48.3.\u00a0 \u00a0Millennials were at 45.3.\u00a0 Baby Boomers were at a not-so-lonesome 42.4.\u00a0 The Greatest Generation, those 72 and above, were, on the whole, hardly lonely at all, with an average of 38.6.<\/p>\n<p>Why are younger people so lonesome?<\/p>\n<p>One might suspect that social media, where your \u201cfriends\u201d are online contacts as opposed to flesh and blood human beings in your life,\u00a0 is to blame.\u00a0 But this research doesn\u2019t bear that out.\u00a0 (Although that last bullet point raises a question for me:\u00a0 the social media users average of 43.5 is over the threshold that defines loneliness, whereas the score of non-social media users of 41.7 rates as non-lonely.\u00a0 The study elsewhere makes a bigger deal of similar 2 point differences.)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/sections\/health-shots\/2018\/05\/01\/606588504\/americans-are-a-lonely-lot-and-young-people-bear-the-heaviest-burden\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">One commentator<\/a>\u00a0on the study, citing other research, says that the key is <em>how<\/em> a person uses social media:\u00a0\u00a0\u201cIf you\u2019re passively using it, if you\u2019re just scrolling feeds, that\u2019s associated with more negative effects,\u201d says Brigham Young psychologist Julianne Holt-Lun<a href=\"https:\/\/fhssfaculty.byu.edu\/FacultyPage?id=jh67\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">st<\/a>ad, \u201cBut if you\u2019re using it to reach out and connect to people to facilitate other kinds of [in-person] interactions, it\u2019s associated with more positive effects.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>See also <a href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/sections\/health-shots\/2018\/05\/01\/606588504\/americans-are-a-lonely-lot-and-young-people-bear-the-heaviest-burden\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Rhitu Chatterjee\u2019s article<\/a> on the study.<\/p>\n<p>I have a theory about why teenagers and young adults are so lonely.\u00a0 This is the age at which human beings are most concerned with reaching out to others.\u00a0 They yearn for understanding, are worried about how they appear to others, and need to connect with other human beings.\u00a0 (In Classical Education terms, this is the \u201crhetoric\u201d phase.)\u00a0 And yet, in typical school structures, segregated by age, with adults not in the picture, socially-inexperienced young people tend to form cliques, pecking orders, and hierarchies.\u00a0 Sometimes these reach <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2jlQcjQ\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Lord of the Flies<\/a> levels of viciousness and exclusion.\u00a0 Thus, a teenager yearns to belong, and yet feels excluded from the group, resulting in a feeling of loneliness.<\/p>\n<p>I wonder if Generation Z\u2019s who have been home-schooled or otherwise exist in social circles that contain adults and peers of different ages have the same rates of loneliness.<\/p>\n<p>And, of course, factors are also going to be absent fathers, and, across the board, the general breakdowns of families, communities, churches, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Any other theories?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><em>Illustration, \u201cLoneliness in a Crowd\u201d\u00a0By U3117126 [CC BY-SA 4.0 (https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-sa\/4.0)], from Wikimedia Commons\u00a0<\/em><\/p><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most Americans are lonely, according to a new study.\u00a0 And, contrary to what we might expect, the older you are, the less lonely you feel.\u00a0 In fact, loneliness is greatest among young people. 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