{"id":80,"date":"2012-07-18T21:18:24","date_gmt":"2012-07-18T21:18:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/godsgloriouslife.blog\/?p=80"},"modified":"2012-07-18T21:18:24","modified_gmt":"2012-07-18T21:18:24","slug":"a-few-miles-in-someone-elses-shoes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/gloriouslife\/2012\/07\/a-few-miles-in-someone-elses-shoes\/","title":{"rendered":"A Few Miles in Someone Else&#8217;s Shoes"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>Some events occur in an individual life that may have important implications only later in his or her life. I believe the times has come in my life as a Christian and a pastor to tell the story of a specific persecution I suffered with two friends who are homosexual.<\/p>\n<p>First, I will relate the event. I was in a car with my then girlfriend and one of her best friends, a gay man. The car was being\u00a0driven by the man he was dating at the time. L, my girlfriends\u2019 buddy, was spotted getting into the passenger \u2018s seat by some young men who knew him from High School. They immediately began cursing and threatening him. I shouted for L to get into the car while J his boyfriend, drove out of the parking lot.<\/p>\n<p>That was when things got scary and very dangerous. We realized very soon that we were being chased. Aluminum cans and empty bottles where being thrown at our car. When traffic forced us to stop at a red light, the guy on the passenger\u2019s side attempted to hit J with some sort of wooden handle. Being a smoker, J usually kept his window rolled part-way down. He quickly rolled it up the rest of the way.<\/p>\n<p>We took off. We sped up. We braked. We tried a number of different maneuvers to a get away and end the growing nightmare. We ran red lights when we could. And we looked for anything we might have used for a weapon. Finally, L asked me what we could do. I said. \u201cGo to the police station.\u201d J asked how to get there.<\/p>\n<p>When our destination became apparent, the young men broke off chasing us. We knew who they were. We knew the car. We had evidence on our car. And we had the tag number. We decided to file a complaint with the police.<\/p>\n<p>The officer at the desk pretended we did not exist. He refused to hear our complaint. He\u00a0made it plain by his inaction that the department was not there to help us. We were weird, different,\u00a0and, in his eyes, sinners.<\/p>\n<p>That night I learned that to have justice\u00a0or help one has to conform to an approved standard of moral behavior or be an approved person. If one\u00a0was neither one \u201cdeserved what one got.\u201d Thankfully we were not hurt. We did not wreck. We did not have done to us what Matthew Shepard had done to him.<\/p>\n<p>The whole idea of an approved standard of moral behavior is so fraught with hypocrisy because\u00a0really it is not about one\u2019s actions or character. It is a front for prejudice and the determining agent of \u201capproved persons.\u201d This is the same basis for race-baiting and witch-hunting. Homosexual persons are the object of the church\u2019s practice of inactive prejudice now.\u00a0I have experienced\u00a0the gay-bashing by people who believed it was OK to do so because the Bible\u00a0\u201copposes\u201d homosexuality.<\/p>\n<p>It would be a short\u00a0and easy step to toss out the scripture and the church. And yet, it is not the right step to take. Nor is it right to decide to forsake what one knows and be silent as I have done to my shame.<\/p>\n<p>Readers of the New Testament often read St. Paul\u2019s discussion of sin in Romans 1 which including homosexual acts\u00a0as being only about homosexuality. The other sins in the list are given to get us down to real depravity. So they think. The larger argument in this text is about how the approved persons among the powers that be get away with all of the actions they condemn in other <em>unapproved<\/em> people \u2013 the outcasts and the scapegoats. It is the phenomenon one sees when a person rants about the \u201cgay agenda\u201d while loving the songs and performances of Elton John.<\/p>\n<p>We forget that scapegoating is how the Christian Church was founded. Jesus himself was the scapegoat of the secular and religious leaders of his day. In the church today, we find it easy to blame our problems on society\u2019s \u201cpersecution\u201d of us. Yet, we find ourselves more than happy to participate and approve of the persecution of others as long as we can join the elements of society who do that.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s repent of this action and attitude. Let\u2019s open our doors and hearts to those who suffer the disapproval of hypocrites who often applaud the \u201capproved people\u201d who do the same things as those we too easily call \u201csinners.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some events occur in an individual life that may have important implications only later in his or her life. I believe the times has come in my life as a Christian and a pastor to tell the story of a specific persecution I suffered with two friends who are homosexual. 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